First, brother, I hope we will attempt a respectful engagement.
Forgive me for using generalizations but I think most people get the point.
Yes, I think most people get your point and that's why I question it. You make a gross overgeneralization that most people get, and therefore reject. I totally agree with your point. But it's not a relevant point. People who make certain musical arguments for the reason you gave (i.e., doesn't sound like hymns on a piano and/or organ) should be immediately evicted from the conversation because that is not the point.
The reason why people misunderstand the issue is because they get your point, and believe it, and don't realize that it's not the point.
What are your qualifications to assert that certain beats and rhythms are not evil or do not elicit evil responses (thoughts, attitudes, actions, etc)?
The proof is in the pudding my friend. All I hear from those who use this argument is the argument itself and no real evidence to verify what they are saying. Show me the proof otherwise someone is just blowing hot air.
So how does this answer the question of your qualifications to make assertions about the matter? This is no trifling issue. I can stand all day long and make assertions about, say, something like cancer and chemotherapy. But the reality is that I know nothing about it, and that is evident from looking at my qualifications. Therefore, my opinion should be rejected.
So I ask your qualifications to see if your opinion should be considered seriously. If your qualifications is that you have heard people use their argument and have not heard people give evidence for verification, then we must reject your opinion just like you should reject my opinion about cancer and chemotherapy.
Think about what you are saying (i.e., analyze your argument here): Your answer to my question about qualifications and knowledge is to say that all the people you have heard use this argument never give evidence.
What have we established by that? May I suggest several things:
1. That you haven't actually interacted with the argument; you have only heard it from others.
2. The people you heard it from didn't give evidence for it, according to you. This may mean that (1) they didn't give evidence; (2) you left early and didn't hear the evidence they gave; (3) that you didn't think their evidence was convincing and therefore you don't consider it evidence.
3. That you believe that the fact that the limited people you heard this from gave no evidence means that there is no evidence for it, and therefore you are justified in making a sweeping declaration about the matter based on this very limited exposure.
Obviously, none of this testifies well to your qualifications to comment knowledgeably on this issue. Your qualifications (according to you) boils down to, "I have never heard anyone who used this argument give evidence for it."
What about those who don't use this argument? (I have never heard anyone use the argument you give here.) Might they have some evidence?
What about those who use this argument and have evidence for it, but whom you did not hear give evidence?
The reality is, friend, with all due respect, that your two responses here are telling:
First, you make a generalization and ignore the sweeping consequences of it choosing to assert that it's okay to make a bad argument because most people understand your point. I think this is very bad because you made a bad point and that is why we have the misunderstanding. The fact that people get it is part of the problem.
Second, you want us to believe you because all the people you heard make this argument didn't give evidence. Yet how is that supposed to be convincing to us? How does that establish you as some sort of expert on the matter whose opinion should be adopted by others? It doesn't. And that's part of the problem. We spend time listening to people who do not have views that are well-formed by knowledge and critical interaction that have been tested in the exchange of ideas.
I know we live in a world where people want easy answers, and so it is easy to say, 'It doesn't sound like hymns on a piano and organ, and therefore it's wrong." Or "Since I don't see explicit Scripture, everything's okay."
The reality is that these are very simplistic and superficial ways to address something as serious as the worship of the Creator God. We should want more.