If God controls every event and causes it to happen, then God is the author of evil. When a pervert molests a child, God determined that would happen by your reasoning.
God is in control, but he allows men free choice. The scriptures show this.
Jer 7:31 And they have built the high places of Tophet, which [is] in the valley of the son of Hinnom, to burn their sons and their daughters in the fire; which I commanded [them] not, neither came it into my heart.
Jer 19:5 They have built also the high places of Baal, to burn their sons with fire [for] burnt offerings unto Baal, which I commanded not, nor spake [it], neither came [it] into my mind:
In both these verses God says the Jews were sacrificing their children to Baal, burning them in fire. In both verses he says he never commanded it. He says he never spake it in Jer 19:5. He says this act did not come into his heart or mind.
So, there you have it, men are allowed to act freely. Does God know what men are doing? Yes. Could God stop it? Yes. But it is clear God allows men to act independently. God is still in complete control, he will judge all of us for whether we have done good or evil.
Gal 6:7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
God provides the means of faith, his word. But whether men choose to believe his word or reject it is solely up to them. But God is still in control and every one of us will have to account before him.
Winman, God does not command me to breathe, but he controls my breathing. I breathe by his power. I will stop breathing the moment he stops powering my lungs. What he commands has nothing to do with what he controls.
The fact that God did not command them to burn their children proves nothing.
Your contention is that God had no control over the burning of their children. He was not in control as they burned them. He ruled, powered, controlled the vast cosmos except for one tiny stretch of land that night. Thus, according to your belief, God is not truly sovereign.