I read your initial post and thought it was rather good.
Well, I am a genius and it's about time somebody recognized that!
No, seriously, thank you. It's really odd having this conversation on a Baptist message board because, often when I talk about having a presbyterial form of government (by the way, have I been using "presbyterian" wrongly all these years?), the Reformed folks all congratulate me, while the Baptists all look at me like I'm from Mars or something.
I will never understand the mentality in churches to having a baby Christian who knows little of the Bible, Theology, Prayer, and God to have the same voting power to all things in a church as a seasoned, Godly, prayerful, wise, and Biblical Theologian who demonstrates they are above reproach.
I agree. I believe that there are some things all members should The baby Christian on milk is not ready to make a decision about meat. Somethings concerning meat they are just not ready to handle.
It's funny, I was a false convert for about three years. I was the product of bumper sticker theology and pop-Christianity. I was probably what we would call an "emergent" now.
I remember getting up in a church meeting once and pontificating that the church is like a fish bowl...Honest to goodness, I thought the nonsense I was spouting was the most brilliant thing ever said in that church. Now, of course, I'm embarrassed because I realize it was Unbiblical, babbling nonsense.
I was a false convert and still young enough that my stupidity can be laughed at. But the really sad part is that I was allowed to get up and spout off this nonsense and that the church
actually considered it. Not one person in the church had the discernment or loved me enough to put their hand on my shoulder and say, "Yeah, I'm sure that whatever it is you're rambling on about must be really interesting, but you need to sit down now".
This church was so egalitarian that a twenty year old false convert who wouldn't know sound doctrine if he tripped over it was actually given an opportunity to try to influence the church.
In our church, you're mentored and trained from the beginning. We pair you up with older saints in the church right away so that they can help you along, so that they can steer you around the landmines, so that they can share their wisdom with you. You're expected to grow.
If you do, then you're going to have a voice in the church. If you don't, or if you're a new believer, you're not going to have much of a voice yet (and the key word here is
yet). We don't want to keep you quiet. We want to help you to grow precisely so that you
can take a more active part in the life of the church.
We're not mean and we do want to include everybody, but every boat has to have a captain, a competent officer corps, and a crew or else the ship is just going to sail around in circles.