Finding a Baptist woman to date...

Witness to the facts

 

So now the thread you both where so eagerly wanting to keep on topic after you took it off topic is being digressed to off topic one liners. Motives?

 

I'm going to give you the strangest advice of all.

If you are interested in a woman, act the opposite.

Now, before folks go off on me, let me ask you this, who was the cool guy in school that drove all the girls crazy? Wasn't it the guy who acted like he just didn't care?

Folks are attracted to what they can't have.

Turn the tables on this girl you fancy. Act like you do not care that she is not interested in you. You might be surprised at the results.

 

1. You are in a non-debate section, debating. Just because others break rules does not give you the right to break rules. If your neighbor cheats on his wife, is your wife going to allow you the same because others are doing it?

2. The fact you refer to Godly women as "babes" gives a pretty good indication of how you feel about women in general.

3. You are arrogant, rude, and condescending in your responses.

4. You are hypocritical. You call others out and claim you are debating, yet when others call you out you complain they are not moderators and should leave you alone.

5. You clearly don't know what you are talking about.

 

I did not say treat her with disrespect, I am saying that you should not show such strong interest. And in doing so, you will feel better about yourself.

Can you remember back in High School you would see that girl pouring her eyes out because her boyfriend had dumped her? Did this make her more attractive to her ex-boyfriend? NO, if anything it would drive him farther away. No one likes someone who is NEEDY.

But what if the girl had acted like she was perfectly fine with the boyfriend dumping her? How would that affect the boyfriend? He would think, Hey, what's going on? She's doesn't even care if I dumped her? How come? Does she have another boyfriend already?

And that my friend, makes the girl ATTRACTIVE.

And not only that, but you will feel a little better about yourself. Even though you have been rejected, if you act like you are OK with it, you will actually feel better. You will say, "You know, it's OK! I can handle this. She's not the only fish in the sea!"

Just give it a try my friend. I am not telling you to be fake or anything like that. But hold your head up and tell yourself it's OK. She will notice. Trust me.