The OP and subsequent posts showed by basic logic and Scriptures the inability.
Rather than taking an issue with the posts, your disapproval of a view you assigned to the posts is your rebuttal.
I read the OP and a few posts made after that. However we are on page 15. I admit I have not read all 15 pages. The OP does not demonstrate Total Inability. I agree that the unsaved man is born into the family of the devil, and thus must be born into the family of God. But John 8:44 is a very strong rebuke to the Pharisees who were plotting to kill him and would not believe because of their hardened hearts. That does not mean that no one else could not believe just because they would not believe. That giant leap is not a logical conclusion.
In fact God commands "all men everywhere to repent," a command he would not give if it were not possible for man to do so.
In the same passage he explains that God has set the boundaries of men so that man would "seek him"...that "man would find him." This goes entirely against your premise and conclusion.
Act 17:30 And the times of this ignorance God winked at; but
now commandeth all men every where to repent:
Act 17:26 And hath made of one blood all nations of men for to dwell on all the face of the earth, and hath determined the times before appointed, and the bounds of their habitation;
Act 17:27
That they should seek the Lord, if haply they might feel after him,
and find him, though he be not far from every one of us:
--The Lord made it possible for men (these Athenian idolaters) to both seek and find the Lord without His assistance. He then commanded them to repent. It would be their choice whether or not they would do so.
Again, look at the Cornelius in comparison to John 1. Cornelius was devout, that is he conducted his living and life from the light of God given him. As a result (according to John 1) God gave Cornelius the right to become a believer and sent Peter to present the Gospel.
--Cornelius was not even a full proselyte. He listened from afar. He could not go into the synagogue for he was not circumcised. He simply responded to the light that he had. The word "devout" simply means "religious," as in "devout" Hindu. Many are sincere and devout, but that doesn't get them to heaven. He was as unsaved as the ones that killed Jesus, yelling "Crucify Him!" and just as guilty as the soldiers that drove the nails into his body. He was a part of both groups. Judaism cried for His crucifixion. He was now a part of that false religion. He was still a Roman soldier part of the ones who crucified. How much more guilty could he be. He had never heard the gospel. He was neither regenerated nor saved. He was as lost as one could be. It was for that reason that God sent Peter to him--that he could be saved. If you miss that point, you have missed the entire message of the story.
It is only through the gospel that one can be both regenerated and saved.
1Pe 1:23
Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible,
by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.
1Pe 1:25 But the word of the Lord endureth for ever.
And this is the word which by the gospel is preached unto you.
And you have all wisdom and knowledge to know that the premise is false? It was based upon the logic and Scriptures I presented not just in the OP but in subsequent posts.
Again, you are ignoring Romans 1:20 and its context.
Rom 1:18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
--First note that they had the truth. They
hold the truth in unrighteousness. It is the truth of the Word of God that they have turned away from.
Rom 1:19 Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.
--God revealed to them truth.
Rom 1:20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
--They had enough truth that they were able to understand the concept of the eternal Godhead, even the trinity. From this they turned away. They rejected God's eternal truth. Therefore they have no excuse. If man dwells in darkness it is not God's fault.
They willingly chose spiritual darkness, and willingly refused the light of God.
Already dealt with Cornelius. I won't repeat myself. You and Van are mistaken when you don't see that ONLY those who dwell, embrace, receive... the light are given the right (empowered, power (KJV) to become the believers. The history of Cornelius given in Scriptures show he was not turning away from the light.
Cornelius was as unsaved as the ones who drove the nails into the hands and feet of Jesus. There is no indication that he was saved. To infer otherwise is simply to read into scripture things that are not there. If one does that then he can make the Bible say whatever he wants to. He leaves sound principles of hermeneutics and enters into the field of eisegesis, which has no end of wild interpretation and speculation.
In this you are wrong.
The Scriptures do very clearly teach that the minds and hearts of the heathen are darkened, that they do not understand and not only reject the light, hate the light, but hate all who remain in the light. John 8 clearly shows this:
"You are of your father the devil, and you want to do the desires of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth because there is no truth in him. Whenever he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies. 45 But because I speak the truth, you do not believe Me. 46 Which one of you convicts Me of sin? If I speak truth, why do you not believe Me? 47He who is of God hears the words of God; for this reason you do not hear them, because you are not of God.”
This is odd. You tell me I am wrong when I use Romans 1, in which Paul is describing the general nature of mankind.
But you are using specific scripture that Jesus uses against his rivals, the Pharisees, spoken at that time in history to those that were about to crucify him. You are the one taking Scripture out of context here and misusing it. But all you can tell me when I use the Bible is:
"You are wrong."
Don't much care what "Calvinist"'s believe about regeneration.
Perhaps, but you should know what "regeneration" is, and what the Bible says about it.
The thief did not turn from the light, and he was saved. That is what John 1 teaches is the result of not turning from the light. Those that do turn from the light are not given the right to become believers. That is what John 1 teaches.
The thief repented and turned in faith toward Christ. There was no regeneration at that time. Salvation is by faith, and faith alone. He is a good example of that. We are responsible for the light that we receive. He responded to that light. He put HIS faith or trust in the Lord.
It is interesting that Jesus used the term "your faith" 22 times in the gospels.
The "process" of taking one who has not turned from the light into that of believer is not part of this thread. So, a discussion of "regeneration" doesn't belong here, UNLESS one appoints the "right" or "power" given by God as the point of "generation." (again, I am not certain "re" has much stake in the matter)
You stated in your OP:
Often the matter of choice is attempted to be strung into the area of salvation and ability outside of any influence by God to "choose" to serve or not serve God.
If choice is in the area of salvation, and the ability to choose is not outside the influence of God then you are talking of regeneration.
IOW, the position is taken that man cannot choose unless he is regenerated.
As already shown from Acts 17, that position is not tenable.