If you really bothered, you'd have noted I asked of men perishing. Is it not a tad obvious that I had eternity in perspective? Men ending up in hell is IT
I was speaking about eternal separation, Vooks. That choice is made in the physical lives of men, not after they die. So my intention in my response is that no, not all men are successful in rejecting the Ministry of the Comforter.
The point is that among the Elect there is not a uniform pattern of salvation, meaning, it is not a matter of everyone hears the Gospel, has it revealed as truth, and immediately yields to God and obeys the Gospel. For some it will take years of conviction, until finally they do yield. That a man can rebel against God's will is apparent throughout Scripture, Jonah possibly being the greatest example. Here we have a man directly spoken to by God, and instead of saying, "Okay, Lord, I will do as you ask," he heads in the opposite direction.
And just like Jonah, when God speaks to every man and woman, it is understood that the truth is being revealed. Jonah knew for certain that if he obeyed God, Nineveh would repent. He did not want that to happen.
This means successfully resisting God's will is evidenced by their ending in hell, and this can only be said so if they died in their sins
That is correct. So being "successful" can only be determined in those who die in rebellion to the Gospel of Christ. I am not one who likes to give up on anyone. I knew a fellow who said "If I don't have them saved in five minutes I won't waste any more time on them."
Let's recap
1. Men are totally helpless; they can't save themselves and left to their own devices, all would perish
And you are agreeing with my primary point here: men cannot save themselves, and free will suggests they play a role.
But the natural man cannot understand the spiritual things of God, they do not seek after God, and the fact remains that for them to be saved they are dependent on God's intervention.
The glorious truth of the Gospel and the New Covenant is that men are not "left to their own devices," but enjoy the intervention of God. This is the Biblical pattern since Adam. What man of the faithful took the initiative to get up and go out and find God? Which was not first found by God, and then brought into relationship?
2. God however wills not that any perish
Yet we know that the many will perish, don't we?
God is not held responsible for men rejecting truth and refusing to obey Him. When you tell a child not to do something, you express your will to that child, and you have the authority to enforce that will. But that does not mean the child will obey. And God is just, He would not demand obedience in something that He knows has an impossible outcome. We do not, for example, demand a first grader get straight As in Algebra, because it is beyond their capacity. But, the first grader is taught and when the understanding is provided them, then the good grades are demanded.
No different in regards to God's will. Men are not born with that capacity but are taught. We have the ABCs provided which are the internal witness, the testimony of Creation, and then finally specific teaching. Yet all along the man is not left to teach himself something he cannot possibly learn, he has a Teacher that comes and enlightens his mind whereby he gains the ability to take the proper course.
3. To save them, God irresistibly draws men to himself
I believe this is a moot point for the Elect. Of course those who are known to God will not resist, ultimately. Again, that doesn't mean they don't during the process of the conviction they are brought under.
4. Men still perish because they choose to.
And that is the only "free will" that the natural man has the inherent ability to exercise. They are the ones who decide to reject God.
May I ask exactly what it is that men choose leading to their perdition?
Again, you are prescribing ability. That is not correct. They do not choose something, they reject something. That something, in this Age, is the Ministry of the Comforter. If I come to you and say "Hey Vooks, I am going to show you how to fix your heating system so you don't freeze to death," and you say, "No thanks, I think things will work out just fine, " and you do freeze to death, would you ascribe ability to perform that which would have kept you from perishing to yourself?
It's no different with the Gospel of Christ. Natural man cannot understand it as truth, because they reject it as truth. In that conviction we are told the Comforter would convict of sin, righteousness, and judgment. I think the primary issues involved there are the conviction that we are sinners who will be eternally separated, and are headed for judgment. Christ is righteous, we are not, and this is acknowledged, and acted upon. The only recourse is to cry out to God and receive Christ.
And just as you did not know how to fix your heating system, natural men are not aware of their sin and it's penalty. To them it is a fairy tale, but, to the one who has this revealed as truth to them...it is not.
God bless.