Would this be a fair statement?

Agreed that it is not of myself and in fact I resisted and kicked against the goads.
However, I personally did the "tap out" and He respected it and gave me immediate release of my anguish.

I presently have no problem whatsoever with Jesus being in complete control of everything in the life He has given me.
It gives me joy and comfort.

HankD

 

No, Calvinism states and holds that all humans are sinners and all of us deserve hell, but that God choose to save some out to be His own people, and allows the rest to have their own will and stay lost.

 

The scriptures teach that. The difference is that Calvinists teach that God chose his people without any conditions, meaning God's people were not chosen based on them choosing Him. This mean people do not have the free will to choose him.

 

Yes, Jesus loved, sought and saved me, without conditions, and that unconditional love is responded to by His elect. Calvinists do believe that they chose Christ. We just understand the reason we do is that He first chose us. "We love because He first loved us".

 

Yea but Calvinists teach that the reason we choose God is because He makes us alive FIRST before we chose Him. They believe you are saved, born again and given eternal life BEFORE you call on the name of the Lord. They will tell you: How can a dead man rise from the dead unless he is made alive first?
So you are right, salvation is Unconditional from God's part, but it is Conditional from our part.

 

The very Word of God makes alive what was dead. "Lazarus, come forth". . .

The call of the gospel makes God's elect alive, and then they happily and willing come to Him. Many people, not all, obviously, hear the outward call - the Good News, but only those for whom the Spirit quickens it, are made new creations. If you don't believe that you are left with something to boast about when trying to explain why you are saved but the guy next to you, who heard the same words, is not.

 

You are assuming I would be left with something to boast about. I'm not a Calvinist and I would never boast of my salvation. I'm saved because He saved me, even though I chose Him.

 

Again, Jesus differs with that position: "You did not choose me, but I chose you. . ."

May I ask, why is it that you "choose Him", but others did not?

 

He enabled me to choose Him or reject Him. That happen at the point of conviction! That happened to you as well

 

Free will

 

I do not deny my will was in bondage before salvation. I deny the Calvinistic belief that we do not have a choice BEFORE he saves us.

 

Only God has absolute Free Will, correct?

 

We do have a will, but we will always reject Jesus, and stay in darkness.

 

"saved and sure,

Nope...not really...there is a few that speak of unsaved wicked persons being appointed;

1pet;
7 Unto you therefore which believe he is precious: but unto them which be disobedient, the stone which the builders disallowed, the same is made the head of the corner,

8 And a stone of stumbling, and a rock of offence, even to them which stumble at the word, being disobedient: whereunto also they were appointed.

9 But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light

3 And through covetousness shall they with feigned words make merchandise of you: whose judgment now of a long time lingereth not, and their damnation slumbereth not.

4 For if God spared not the angels that sinned, but cast them down to hell, and delivered them into chains of darkness, to be reserved unto judgment;

5 And spared not the old world, but saved Noah the eighth person, a preacher of righteousness, bringing in the flood upon the world of the ungodly;

6 And turning the cities of Sodom and Gomorrha into ashes condemned them with an overthrow, making them an ensample unto those that after should live ungodly;[/QUOTE]

 

Incorrect.....

 

What is your answer to your own loaded and leaning question?