No Reformed or Calvinists has EVER been able to disprove
John 3:16 as Jesus dying for the entire human race, and
offering salvation to ALL of this race!
With all due respect, it's been done already and you have simply disagreed with the Scriptures presented.
As I see it,
every passage that's been brought to bear that spells this out, has been met with opposition, doubt, or some kind of appeal to the Greek in order to make the words not say what they say.
It's as if you simply don't want to consider the Scriptures being presented, nor do you ever want to.
To address your continued view of salvation being an "offer":
Again, SBG... you're treating salvation and the
gift of eternal life ( Romans 3:23 ) as being merit-based.
If it's an "offer" ( instead of a
promise given
to only those that believe ) then it's up to us to avail ourselves of the offer and do what is required...isn't it?
Seems very natural to me, only it's not Biblical with respect to God's grace.
Incidentally, that's exactly how the Law works and exactly how our minds as sinful men work;
Same pattern, same principles.
We as sinful men simply cannot conceive of a God that not only does as
He pleases
without our input...
We
cannot accept a God that gives our fellow man a gift that they do not deserve
by doing something to get it, at least not without giving
everyone the same chance to get it.
Instead, we treat a God that gives something to someone "gratis" ( freely ) as having "respect" towards that person...
when in fact He is doing it to completely up-end our ideas of what is right and natural, and establish His own actions as righteous ( see 1 Corinthians 1:18-31 ).
He does it to bring to nothing the things that are established, as common practice, by us as men.
He operates contrary to our way of thinking in order to destroy our own ideas of what is right and fair, SBG.
Grace is only grace if we did absolutely
nothing to get it ( Romans 11:5-6 ).