Of course, the natural man resists God; the natural man cannot do anything else.
God's elect are made willing - Psalms 110:3 Thy people shall be willing in the day of thy power, In the beauties of holiness from the womb of the morning: Thou hast the dew of thy youth.
(emphasis mine)
The psalms are almost exclusively prophetic. The people of God who are the subject of the prophesies in these psalms are not the elect as you as a Calvinist would define the elect. They are the people of God with whom he has a covenant relationship through which he has made
unconditional promises. Everything that happens with God is in view of his faithfulness to his covenant people, Israel. The promises he has made to Abraham and his physical seed is in no way dependent upon their faithfulness to him. It would have been so much better for this people if they would have been faithful to him.
Psa 81:1010 I am the Lord thy God, which brought thee out of the land of Egypt: open thy mouth wide, and I will fill it.
11 But my people
would not hearken to my voice; and
Israel would none of me.
12 So I gave them up unto their own hearts' lust: and they walked in their own counsels.
G
od thought his people had a will and could choose their own actions
13 Oh that my people had hearkened unto me, and Israel had walked in my ways!
14 I should soon have subdued their enemies, and turned my hand against their adversaries.
Ken, I think there is not a Calvinist alive today who believes verse 13 and 14.That is my opinion.
15 The haters (
he is speaking of the haters in Israel) of the Lord should have submitted themselves unto him: but their time should have endured for ever.
16 He should have fed them also with the finest of the wheat: and with honey out of the rock should I have satisfied thee.
In Psalm 110, his people, Israel, will be made willing in the day of his (God's) power, which is the same and equal with the "Day of the Lord.," a set time when he will purge all rebels and unbelievers out of Israel and purify them as a nation and a family with the fire of what he calls "great tribulation." This is what is meant by John the Baptist when he said to Israel at the Jordan River when he was baptizing the nation in water, " And now also the axe is laid unto the root of the trees: therefore every tree which bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. I indeed baptize you with water unto repentance. but he that cometh after me is mightier than I, whose shoes I am not worthy to bear: he shall baptize you with the Holy Ghost, and with fire: Whose fan is in his hand, and he will throughly purge his floor, and gather his wheat into the garner; but he will burn up the chaff with unquenchable fire." Matt 33:10-12
Israel was baptized with the Holy Ghost in Acts 2, fifty days after Jesus Christ rose from the dead, being ascended back to heaven. They have not yet experienced the baptism of fire, but they soon will.
The election of us gentiles now is not according to any promise to us that he is bound by an oath to keep, as it was with every covenant with Israel, but we are included in his salvation according to his mercy and grace. Our election is not predetermined individually before the foundation of the earth to be saved from our sins from the penalty of the second death, which is eternal separation from God in the lake of fire, but God chooses all those who hears about his Son, Jesus Christ, and believes and trusts that God will save us on the merits of his person and work like he says he will. He therefore chooses us "in Christ," that is he chooses every person whom the Spirit baptizes into the body of Christ when they believe the gospel of Christ. Romans 3:16 - The gospel is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believes, to the Jew first and also to the gentile.Jesus Christ is the elect.
I bring this up because you Calvinists miss the message of the scriptures and therefore blaspheme (speak evil of) the scriptures by misapplying them.
Note: all scriptures have a spiritual context and are profitable for a spiritual application but that context does not negate the literal truths of the word.
Re-read Psalm 110 as if the day of his power, V 3, is the time when God will purify Israel in the day of his wrath, V 5, and this has nothing to do with you in any kind of literal way.