I appreciate your thoughts, but no, I have not been reading guys out of anywhere. I have been reading Scripture.@JonC . My final thoughts on this to you specifically would be this. You are probably reading guys like Belousek, out of Ohio Northern, a Mennonite. I would only suggest that you are not quite where those guys are, which is why your argument looks strange to those of us who have looked into these matters in some detail. The reason I say that is simply because it is easier to refute them than you because they have moved further away from the concepts we are familiar with and thus their positions are identifiable, more so than yours. Your positions are very hard to differentiate from penal substitution because you are still using the same terms and verses and claiming them as true, which is what I think confuses people.
But you are heading in their direction. Regarding the atonement, because we are completely passive in it, mere observers and recipients of it's benefits, there is not a lot of explicit information given to us that is essential that we embrace for the purpose of being saved. Christ died for us according to the scripture, but exactly what does that mean? If I embrace Christ as my Lord and Savior and have wrong theology regarding the atonement am I deceiving myself? In light of that I would simply say this. The litmus test I would use to evaluate those who don't like penal substitution would be "was it truly essential that Christ die? And what would be our situation if he had not?" If you answer those two questions and find that it would not truly and organically (or ontologically) have been necessary that Christ die you are not a Christian. And if you read many of the arguments made by the modern opponents of penal substitution you find that this in indeed the case they are trying to make.
In other words, say you believe that the whole atonement was Christ defeating Satan and destroying him, and you believe that the power Satan had and the hold he had over man was because of the sin of man, then I might have a different understanding of the precise theology of the atonement yet still consider you as an actual Christian. Or, if you would say that Christ's death satisfied the offense to God's sense of justice and holiness and that he was of such an overwhelming worth as it were in the Father's view, that anyone who joined in union with Christ would be saved - because they were viewed as "in Christ" and He was their advocate, coming with his own blood - well that also I could accept as a sufficiently orthodox view of the matter even though it may not describe penal substitution as I would desire. What I think you have to have is Christ in some way "handling" the situation and that situation has got to include our individual sin, not just our status as mankind or as a member of the race and it has to be in a decisive and essential way rather that as an example to us or as a symbol.
And I find that the modern things I read fall short here and it is far more serious than the way the Early Church Fathers might has done or Anselm, or Thomas Aquinas - none of which gave any evidence of picking at the work of Christ as being our only hope of individual salvation. And so it's up to you to decide when you read these guys to decipher what it is they are trying to do. John Owen I think does a good job of explaining this regarding the Socinians of his day and honestly I would encourage you to re read this because I see some of the same philosophy in the modern refutations of the atonement. What they do is try to devaluate the worth of the work of Christ on the cross as being pivotal to our salvation - leaving us with a responsibility of following a set of ethics and behavior which they then supply. (And I challenge anyone who doubts me on this to read their other writings and see if they agree with the directions they head in those areas.)
I do not care about orthodoxy to a specific group of people. When I use orthodox I mean in terms of Christianity. Orthodox does not mean correct.
The fact is that PSA stands alone.
The classic positions held that because of the cross we have the confidence in Christ that although we will be forsaken to suffer the same punishment as Christ (not a crucifixion but the powers of Satan) that God will deliver us through it just as Christ was delivered.
PSA cannot believe that. Why? Because that would mean that Jesus did not suffer God's punishment, Jesus did not die instead of us, all that hocus pocus about sins being transferred here and there would be nonsense.
The theorists say that the early Christians were just confused and their beliefs due to persecution. So it took sixteen hundred years to fix it. Hogwash.