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How do you handle anonymous letter in your church?

Discussion in 'General Baptist Discussions' started by piaairline, Apr 29, 2006.

  1. Joshua Rhodes

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    My pot can't talk... unless I leave last week's cheese dip in it too long. [​IMG]

    I don't read the letter until I look at the bottom to find out who it's from. Circular file if there's no name.
     
  2. rbell

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    I gave a million dollars to my church.

    But, I wanted it to be anonymous, so I didn't sign the check.

    Reckon the pastor read it?
     
  3. I Am Blessed 24

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    Yes, and then threw it in the circular file because there was no name on it and therefore no good to him at all. [​IMG]
     
  4. Carolina

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    Thanks Rachael. Nice to meet you! [​IMG]
     
  5. Bible-boy

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    Now if that aint the pot calling the kettle black?
    </font>[/QUOTE]Again this is not gossiping on my part for the following reasons:

    1. You posted your material in an Open Public Forum on the Internet for the entire watching world to read and discuss.

    2. You asked me to find proof that what you had done was unethical for a Christian Counselor.

    3. I took you up on that request and informed you that I would print out some of your posts and ask the Christain Counseling Professors at my Seminary for their opinions of what you have done.

    4. You agreed that I could do so and even encouraged me to talk to someone else about the situation. Therefore, I have your permission to share the material.

    If you do not wish for me to share the material say so and I will honor your request (I have not talked with anyone about it yet).
     
  6. DHK

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    Henry Ward Beecher often received anonymous letters, among them being a most unusual one with only the word FOOL written on a large sheet of paper. Mr. Beecher took the letter into the pulpit with him. Said he, "I have received many anonymous letters, but I hold in my hand the uniquest one I ever received. The anonymous writer signed his name FOOL but failed to enclose the letter!"
     
  7. Kilad

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    Henry Ward Beecher often received anonymous letters, among them being a most unusual one with only the word FOOL written on a large sheet of paper. Mr. Beecher took the letter into the pulpit with him. Said he, "I have received many anonymous letters, but I hold in my hand the uniquest one I ever received. The anonymous writer signed his name FOOL but failed to enclose the letter!" </font>[/QUOTE][​IMG] [​IMG] man Dr Pepper burns when it comes out the nose [​IMG]
     
  8. LisaB

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    Moderator warning!

    You will not spam the board with useless material

    Blackbird

    [ May 05, 2006, 08:28 AM: Message edited by: blackbird ]
     
  9. annsni

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    I haven't read the thread at all but our pastor has announced from the pulpit that if someone has something worth saying, that they need to stand behind it. If he gets an anonymous letter, the secretary is directed to toss it without even showing it to him. If you want him to read it, it MUST be signed.

    Annie
     
  10. thjplgvp

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    Ben W :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
     
  11. mcdirector

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    Wow! this is one interesting thread with perhaps a record number of banned people :tongue3:

    Our last pastor said he didn't read anon letters. I'm sure that he opened them to find out they were anon.

    I find it interesting that our school, as part of the church, sends out surveys that allows for anon comments. Those comments are taken into consideration. It has been my experience that the anon comments are usually hostile and the positive comments are usually signed.
     
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