I understand your point and I am not going to argue it. But I do want to clarify that I am not a universalist. My wording was too ambiguous. All who are saved are saved by Christ and only Christ. Better?
That is what I meant. Thank you for the chance to clarify.
One more point -- the Catholics call their teaching 'orthodox', and various others call their teachings 'orthodox' and as far as I can see 'orthodox' is another word for 'traditional'. So I'm not worried about orthodox. I am concerned with what the Bible says.
Your 2 Kings passage was a good rebuttal, by the way.
And, since I can't seem to shut up yet, I do disagree with asking children to 'decide for Christ' by whatever terms are used. My youngest daughter 'accepted' Christ at least fifteen times before she was eight. She loved the attention and new Bibles and candies she was given each time! She is also the one who, later in life, was kicked out of Bible college for lying, stealing, and cheating...
I strongly agree with teaching children from the minute they can understand anything ABOUT Jesus and the Bible and all the Bible stories, etc. By the time my kids were preteens we were reading the Bible through cover to cover every two years (it took that long) and discussing it. They knew it well. But each of them still had to do their own wrestling with God in their late teens and early twenties. At least then they knew who God was!
But kids tend to do things because other kids are doing them, or because there is a reward or attention, or to escape punishment, or maybe just to make mommy or daddy happy. Teens are not far different, bowing to peer pressure and the 'bribes' of good grades and privileges or trying to avoid punishments or consequences. It is not until a person is in the late teens or early twenties that the brain is even fully developed and the neuron disconnects which occurred during the teen years have all been replaced by new, adult connections.
And this is the time when mom and dad are pushed aside a little or a lot in order for the kid to 'find himself'. It's a time when philosophical and theological questions START to get asked very seriously. It is a time of the first major decision making in a person's life which is NOT a result of peer, parental, or teacher pressure.
It is because I raised six children and taught hundreds more that I started to recognize these patterns and the material in Exodus struck home from everything I had seen.
Thinking about it, the only thing I would think about the passage you referred to is that it is presented as a singular incident while the Exodus is considered a picture of leaving sin, dying to self, and entering a new life as a new person. If that picture holds, then there may be something to the age of accountability.
My faith does not depend on it, but I think the faith of a lot of parents who have lost children might.