Not quite (and the part of your post that was not based on quoted scripture).
Point #1 -You make it sound like God is just waiting anxiously for us to DO SOMETHING so that He can jump in and save us.
Point #2 - Scripture says that we are DEAD in our sins until God jumps in and does something [Ephesians 2:4-5] (But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in our wrongdoings, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved).) and that this faith is “not of ourselves, it is the gift of God” [Ephesians 2:8].
Point #3 As Romans 8:28-29 (For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters; and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified.) illustrates a salvation that is the work of God from FIRST (He predestined) to LAST (He glorified).
I will deal with your 3 points in order;
Point #1
YES, Indeed, Yes. However the response of God for doing what he says for us to do, believe what he says. is not that he "jumps in to save us" but that he "enters in to save us" in the person of the Spirit.
This present age, after he cross.
Ro 4:23 Now it was not written for his sake alone, that it was imputed to him;
24 But for us also, to whom it (righteousness) shall be imputed,
if we believe on him (
God the Father) that raised up Jesus our Lord from the dead;
Acts 10:5 And now send men to Joppa, and call for one Simon, whose surname is Peter:
6 He lodgeth with one Simon a tanner, whose house is by the sea side:
he shall tell thee what thou oughtest to do.
Ac 10:35 But in every nation he that feareth him, and worketh righteousness, is accepted with him.
Ac 10:43 To him give all the prophets witness, that through his name whosoever believeth in him shall receive remission of sins.
Ac 11:13 And he shewed us how he had seen an angel in his house, which stood and said unto him, Send men to Joppa, and call for Simon, whose surname is Peter;
14 Who shall tell thee words, whereby thou and all thy house shall be saved.
15 And as I began to speak, the Holy Ghost fell on them, as on us at the beginning.
16 Then remembered I the word of the Lord, how that he said, John indeed baptized with water; but ye shall be baptized with the Holy Ghost.
17 Forasmuch then as God gave them the like gift as he did unto us, who believed on the Lord Jesus Christ; what was I, that I could withstand God?
Peter simply told them what to do is to believe the gospel and they will be saved. (receive the Spirit of Christ into their bodies to quicken them)
Ac 16:29 Then he called for a light, and sprang in, and came trembling, and fell down before Paul and Silas,
30 And brought them out, and said, Sirs, what must I do to be saved?
31 And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house.
There is something to do and it is to believe the gospel when you hear it.
Point #2
Did you not read the verses I gave for my points in my previous posts, number 9 and number 16?. His entering in to our mortal bodies is life from the dead. Our mortal bodies are not what you Calvinists have preached they are. They are not dead in the sense they are without ability to function and feel and live. Being dead then cannot mean they are completely unable to do anything. I think you call that "total inability." It is a senseless doctrine with 7 billion people who are alive on earth proving they can do things with their bodies that are sins against God for which they will be judged and condemned, though they are spiritually dead.
Read this and believe what you read and it will help you.
Ro 8:9 But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.
You say, and I have read Calvinists saying it, that Calvinists are his before the Spirit enters into them to dwell in their bodies. This is denial of truth.
10 And if Christ be in you,
the body is dead because of sin (apply your definition of death here and see how it cannot fit); but the Spirit is life because of righteousness.
11 But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also
quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you.
Without the Spirit indwelling the body, they are dead.(this does not mean their bodies are lying inert on the ground, it means they are separated from God)
With God indwelling the body, they are alive because his presence in their bodies quickens them, because he is life. How many times did Jesus Christ say he is life? (Jn 14:6: jn 11:25, etc)
I do not know how you men can read these verses and see everything except what they actually say.
What God wants sinners to do is to believe the gospel of Christ, having heard it. HIs promise is that he will give them life (the Spirit) if they will.
Point #3
God will never give light and understanding through a perversion of his words like your translation. There is no way to agree on the doctrines of the bible if we are reading different words. The glorification of the body by creating it new at the gathering is the definition of predestination. we believers are waiting on that, we are hoping for it.
Ro 8:15 For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.
Ro 8:23 And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
29 For whom he (God the Father) did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
The image of his Son when this letter was written in 58 AD was tripartite. Soul and Spirit in a glorified body. This is a body like unto the glorious body of Jesus, which will provide the capacity to dwell physically in the heavenlies where he is. This is the blessed hope of the church.
Php 3:20 For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ:
21 Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
1Jo 3:2 Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is.
Predestination is to finally be glorified and taken to heaven where Jesus is. If each one of us were glorified and taken to heaven when we first got saved, there would not be a predestination doctrine. Since all the church saints will be glorified and taken to heaven together at the same time and as one, it means that our destination has been predetermined to be the Fathers house in heaven. Praise the Lord for this.
Joh 14:2 In my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.
3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, (it is New Jerusalem- Re 21:9) I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.
I suggest reading the context of all these verses I have given you from a KJV Bible. If one understands God he must have God's words.