I was talking with a fellow Christian earlier and in our discussion we talked about our favorite verses. So he told me of his and why, and I think it's pretty cool (no I don't remember what it was). So then I told him of mine and so I told him- Matthew 25:31-46 and how to me it tells that we should treat everyone, not exactly like we would Jesus but, like they are our brothers and sisters for that is how we would expect to be treated, and here Jesus takes defense in saying the same thing, though not in those words. He told me I was wrong. I imagine I said it wrong, but to me it's close to the same thing.
So what am I missing here?
This is not a parable, but an actual event. The symbolism is the reference to sheep vs. goats. But this is not about all mankind. This is about Jesus as King over His own people, Israel. Only a remnant, a third of Israel, will be spared as sheep, and given everlasting life. The rest of Israel gathered out of all nations, will be judged as goats and tossed into the LOF.
Paul refers to this judgment in Romans 11:25-28, when Jesus comes to restore and remove the blindness from Israel.
25 For I would not, brethren, that ye should be ignorant of this mystery, lest ye should be wise in your own conceits; that blindness in part is happened to Israel, until the fulness of the Gentiles be come in.
26 And so all Israel shall be saved: as it is written, There shall come out of Sion the Deliverer, and shall turn away ungodliness from Jacob:
27 For this is my covenant unto them, when I shall take away their sins.
28 As concerning the gospel, they are enemies for your sakes: but as touching the election, they are beloved for the father's sakes.
Paul is referring to the sheep. They will be all of Israel redeemed from the earth, at the Second Coming.
As one poster pointed out, the metric Jesus used was doing works. That would make them an enemy of the Gospel, which has nothing to do with works, but faith in God's redemption, and nothing we can do to save ourselves. Jesus chooses some on the basis of works as they are elected directly by God, and have no choice in that election.
Israel as a nation separate from all other nations has a Covenant with God. They were His chosen people by physical birth. God will remove their sins, and change them just like He did the church. But these are not the church, but a chosen few to live and reign on the earth with their King for a thousand years.
The lesson we can learn is that whatever we do we should do it for God, and not our own self recognition. But that lesson has nothing to do with Salvation, nor changes the fact these will be literal physical people changed by God, or forever damned, because they rejected God prior to the Second Coming of their King. This judgment has nothing to do with the vast majority of all the rest of humanity, not part of Jacob.
The wheat and tares final harvest found in Matthew 13 covers all the rest of mankind.