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Adultery

Scarlett O.

Moderator
Moderator
My initial response is to say no.

I'm conflicted by the fact that the church allows the obese, the divorced/remarried, the addicted, and a whole lot more to join the church. Where does the line stop?
 

Dr. Bob

Administrator
Administrator
Living in open, defiant, unrepented sin would stop membership process NO MATTER WHAT sin we are talking about.

That said, "living in adultery" is a vague description and loosely used. By definition, adultery is "voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not his or her spouse". If a person is "living" in adultery, this implies immorality, abandonment of family, desertion of spouse, etc, many levels of wrong that must be righted
 

Judith

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Should the church allow someone join the church who is living in adultery?
No. But what are you calling adultery? Do you mean fornication or adultery or both? Do you mean two people living as husband and wife (common law) but not formally married? Is the couple a couple previously married to others and divorced and remarried? What are the circumstances?
 

Martin Marprelate

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1 Cor. 7:12-13, 15. '...If a brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him ....... But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.'
It seems to me that in such cases, the Scripture is saying that the believer is entitled to divorce the unbeliever and to remarry.
 

Judith

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One is married but separated the other is divorced and recently moved in. I guess it would be fornication.
In that case no, they should not be allowed to join the church. In fact, they should be put through church discipline.
 

JesusFan

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1 Cor. 7:12-13, 15. '...If a brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him ....... But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.'
It seems to me that in such cases, the Scripture is saying that the believer is entitled to divorce the unbeliever and to remarry.
God desires to always have reconciliation, forgiveness, and restoration, but at times due to hardness of the heart, H will permit scriptural divorce and remarriage
 

Deena

New Member
No, nor should they join if they are openly actively fornicating. Otherwise there is no distinction between the saved and unsaved. The saved are not slaves to sin, unsaved are. Sex sins are especially egregious as they sin against the soul and the earthly temple GOD has assigned us to. A temple made in his image

“Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body” 1 For 6:18
 
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