I will start by freely admitting that my ability in explaining things clearly (all things, not just things to do with Christianity) is not the best. I will try once again in answering some of your points.
You wrote: "The bible is clear that Christ was not just "the propitiation for our sins" but "the whole world" because He "gave Himself as a ransom for all"". Of course that is true, the bible does say that. But if "the whole world" and "all" mean "everybody without exception who has ever lived," then that would make scripture contradict scripture, because there are verses which talk about God choosing whom He saves. It is clear from other verses that such words do not always mean "everybody without exception":
“And it came to pass in those days [that] a decree went out from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be registered.” (Lu 2:1 NKJV)
It wasn't absolutely everybody in the whole world, but only those in the Roman Empire.
“First, I thank my God through Jesus Christ for you all, that your faith is spoken of throughout the whole world.” (Ro 1:8 NKJV)
Was the faith of the Christians in Rome being spoken of in what we now call Australia, Greenland or the USA?
“Then Jerusalem, all Judea, and all the region around the Jordan went out to him” (Mt 3:5 NKJV)
Does that mean that everybody without exception in Judea went out to him?
Besides, if Christ paid the ransom for everybody without exception, then the payment for their sins has been made, so why are some people still bound for hell?
You then said: "No one was chosen “to be” in Him but instead that those who have repented and believed and are now “in Him” through faith are promised and predestined to an inheritance, adoption, and to be holy and without blame." Yet the bible makes it very clear in places like Ephesians 1 & 2 that those who now believe were indeed chosen/elected by God. That is why Christians have nothing to boast about. We cannot say, "Well, I chose to believe in Jesus, so God saved me." Salvation is God's work from beginning to end.
I don't know if that makes my beliefs any clearer - I hope it does.
David you do quite well at relaying the calvinist points but that is just it, they are the calvinist points, they are not the biblical points.
So what your telling me is that the death of Christ was actually not sufficient to cover the sins of all of mankind. That there must be another way for man to be made right with God and thus be saved.
Remember it was Christ who said "The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand;
repent and
believe in the gospel." Was He wrong? But not all will
repent and
believe will they. Does that lessen what Christ had said, NO.
Did the Holy Spirit get it wrong when He inspired Paul to write "This is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires
all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth." Has God been lying to us or does He actually want
all to come to Him.
Was the Holy Spirit wrong when He said "For God so loved the
world, that He gave His only begotten Son,
that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life." And then gave us the reason why the Son was sent "For God did not send the Son into the
world to judge the
world, but that the
world might be saved through Him."
Was Christ wrong when He said "And I, if I am lifted up from the earth, will draw
all men to Myself."
Christ will draw
all men but not
all will respond. Does that change what Christ said?
The bible tells us that " for
all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God," Are you suggesting that only some sinned? Are we to believe that only the elect sinned? And when we are told "But now the righteousness of God apart from the law is revealed, being witnessed by the Law and the Prophets, even the righteousness of God, through faith in Jesus Christ, to
all and on
all who believe. For there is no difference;" Are only some of those that believe saved or are
all who believe saved?
While God reaches out to the
whole world and desires
all to come to repentance He does not force anyone to do so. Christ's death was sufficient to propitiate the sins of all of humanity or He is less than God and His death did not propitiate the sins of anyone. You seem to be equating propitiation with salvation but that is not what we see in scripture. Salvation was made available to all through the cross but no one was saved at the cross.
The only time anyone is "elect" is when they are in Christ. Eph 1:4 makes that clear. Christians are called chosen or elect of God.
It is God choosing what those of us who are in Him {in Christ} will receive (Eph_1:5-14). We are not chosen “to be” in Him but instead that those who have repented and believed and are now “in Him” through faith are promised and predestined to an inheritance, adoption, and to be holy and without blame.
Were you saved prior to creation? NO. None of us were. We are chosen in time only because we believe not so that we will believe or that we were chosen to believe.
I have to ask, do you boast when someone gives you a gift? Would you think you merit that gift? If not then why do you think anyone would or could boast about receiving the gift of salvation through faith.
You wrote "That is why Christians have nothing to boast about. We cannot say, "Well, I chose to believe in Jesus, so God saved me." But is that not exactly what we see in in Acts 16:30-31
And he brought them out and said, "Sirs,
what must I do to be saved?" So they said, "
Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household."
Now does the jailer have reason to boast, NO. Why because Salvation is God's work from beginning to end. We do not save ourselves but God only saves those that freely trust in Him.
Think through the position that you hold. If as you say God has chosen/elected all those that will be able to be saved then He also picked all those that would not be saved and are thus condemned to hell.
That is one of the problems that I see in calvinism, they do not think through the logical end of that theology.
I understand where you are coming from but what I am saying is that where you are coming from is not biblical. Plus if you take the time to think it through then you will see the problems that that philosophy presents.
Understand I am not saying you are not saved, I am saying that the position you hold is not sound.