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Views on Romantic Relationships

Salty

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Depends. Two months. Two years.
I would say at least one full year! I know there are some who knew each other for a very short time - but those are the rare exceptions.
It takes time to build a good relationship.
 

John of Japan

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The Joshua Harris "chaperones are required and only courting is allowed" is legalism, IMHO.
I've never read Joshua Harris. I think the Bible has some great principles for courtship, but none for "dating" as I did when I was young and our society (even Christians) encourages. In Christian college the leaders would say, "You gotta have a date for the banquet," and I always wondered why. I dated, but the girl usually cut it off after one or two dates because I was very serious about finding the right one (or I could have had bad breath--who knows!) :Coffee
 

Piper 2

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I've never read Joshua Harris. I think the Bible has some great principles for courtship, but none for "dating" as I did when I was young and our society (even Christians) encourages. In Christian college the leaders would say, "You gotta have a date for the banquet," and I always wondered why. I dated, but the girl usually cut it off after one or two dates because I was very serious about finding the right one (or I could have had bad breath--who knows!) :Coffee
Some girl must have been hoodwinked, though, right? I mean, you are married.... jk brother.
 

John of Japan

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Some girl must have been hoodwinked, though, right? I mean, you are married.... jk brother.
Har de har har. ;)

Took me 9 years of prayer, but I've been married for 45 years to the best girl in the world for me! God's will is always the best.
 

Piper 2

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Har de har har. ;)

Took me 9 years of prayer, but I've been married for 45 years to the best girl in the world for me! God's will is always the best.
No, No, No. I've been married for 39 years to the best girl in the ....... rats, you said "for me."
 
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