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How easy should it be for a Baptist church to accept a new member.

Salty

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This question came up from this other similar thread
My basic answer is that you become a Baptist when you join a Baptist church.

So what action should a church take before they accept an individual as a new member.
Attend a new members class
sit down and go over church doctrine (ie they speak in tongues - but want to join)
what is expected as a church member.
other?
 

Ben1445

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This question came up from this other similar thread
My basic answer is that you become a Baptist when you join a Baptist church.

So what action should a church take before they accept an individual as a new member.
Attend a new members class
sit down and go over church doctrine (ie they speak in tongues - but want to join)
what is expected as a church member.
other?
For us, they should be able to quickly give testimony of salvation and Baptism. We have a statement of faith that they are supposed to read and accept, at least to the extent of their willingness to learn about what we believe is Scripture taught and why.
Past that, accepting members is the easiest thing in church. Generally speaking we are the servants of Christ. We are supposed to be aware of wolves that spare not the flock, but the wheat and the tares grow together and we aren’t supposed to separate them. That will be done upon instruction of the Lord at the judgment. It is a fact of life. We live in the world.
 

canadyjd

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We should sit them down and explain they will experience persecution for the rest of their lives. Family and friends will abandon them. They will be mocked and ridiculed. They could lose their jobs and homes. Their children might shun them. The world will hate them because they first hated Jesus.

They could spend their lives with nothing but God Holy Spirit offering them support, guidance and comfort. If they live long enough for the great persecution they may be put to death for their profession of faith.

Then ask, “do you consider yourself worthy to suffer for our Lord Jesus Christ”?

Or…. We could just give them a hug and welcome them to the club.

Peace to you
 

Ben1445

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We should sit them down and explain they will experience persecution for the rest of their lives. Family and friends will abandon them. They will be mocked and ridiculed. They could lose their jobs and homes. Their children might shun them. The world will hate them because they first hated Jesus.

They could spend their lives with nothing but God Holy Spirit offering them support, guidance and comfort. If they live long enough for the great persecution they may be put to death for their profession of faith.

Then ask, “do you consider yourself worthy to suffer for our Lord Jesus Christ”?

Or…. We could just give them a hug and welcome them to the club.

Peace to you
Just to join a Baptist church?
I doubt when John baptized he said any of that before he baptized each person. (Not that that has anything to do with joining a church)
But I would say the same thing about the apostles. I don’t think they told everyone that their lives would be miserable if they joined the church. Actually, I think people knew it when they joined. The church was being persecuted. And today, the majority of people who are coming to Christ are people (100% of them) who have made fun of and mocked others for doing right.
If you have grown up in church, you are familiar enough with it from the start and not necessarily guiltless from the other perspective.
If you have come from outside of churches, you have probably spent enough time with people who mock Christianity if not being one of them who mocked.
I don’t think it’s necessary.
Even Paul got the full message after joining.

Acts 9:16
For I will shew him how great things he must suffer for my name's sake.
 

Ben1445

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Have to wait 90 days unless they have been attending a while
This idea doesn’t seem to fit with Acts as the people were added daily.
While I believe in church autonomy, you can do whatever you want, I don’t think it’s necessary.
In my opinion, I don’t think it is the right way. But that is my opinion.
 

Marooncat79

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This idea doesn’t seem to fit with Acts as the people were added daily.
While I believe in church autonomy, you can do whatever you want, I don’t think it’s necessary.
In my opinion, I don’t think it is the right way. But that is my opinion.
We try to make sure that they understand the Gospel and are seriously committed
 

Earth Wind and Fire

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We try to make sure that they understand the Gospel and are seriously committed
Isn’t it the job of the church them the gospels?
This question came up from this other similar thread
My basic answer is that you become a Baptist when you join a Baptist church.

So what action should a church take before they accept an individual as a new member.
Attend a new members class
sit down and go over church doctrine (ie they speak in tongues - but want to join)
what is expected as a church member.
other?
id ask if they had any interaction with the HS.
 

Deacon

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1. Attend a meet and greet with the pastor - Ours was after the service at a scheduled lunch called, "Pizza with the Pastor" (2nd week of our attendance).
2. Attend a new members class, (A. Learn the history of the local church, B. Meet the leaders of the church, C. Learn some particulars about the local church, D. Become familiar with the Statement of Faith, E. Opportunity to ask questions).
3. Write out our walk of faith and give it to a deacon.
4. Deacon interview

By the second month we were already integrated into a weekly study group and had met many fine families.
I had already begun organizing their church library; my wife had joined a women's group.

Rob
 

canadyjd

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Just to join a Baptist church?
I doubt when John baptized he said any of that before he baptized each person. (Not that that has anything to do with joining a church)
But I would say the same thing about the apostles. I don’t think they told everyone that their lives would be miserable if they joined the church. Actually, I think people knew it when they joined. The church was being persecuted. And today, the majority of people who are coming to Christ are people (100% of them) who have made fun of and mocked others for doing right.
If you have grown up in church, you are familiar enough with it from the start and not necessarily guiltless from the other perspective.
If you have come from outside of churches, you have probably spent enough time with people who mock Christianity if not being one of them who mocked.
I don’t think it’s necessary.
Even Paul got the full message after joining.

Acts 9:16
For I will shew him how great things he must suffer for my name's sake.
Looks like you favor the second option I presented. Give them a hug and welcome them to the club.

Salvation is about a transformed life and people should know what to expect and what is expected of them.

If we treat membership like the local PTA or rotary club, then we will get results inconsistent with the biblical model.

But, as you said, churches are autonomous and let all do according to their conscience.

Peace to you
 

atpollard

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It should be comparable to “Joining a gang” … a lifetime commitment to a “family” … “blood in, blood out” … the prospective member should run a gauntlet of existing members and take their beating (proving they really WANT to be part of the family and that they have earned their place).

”That which we obtain too easily, we esteem too lightly.”

[just kidding ... mostly ... there is a little bit of truth hidden in there.]
 

Ben1445

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If your church is behaving as it should, there will be enough deterrent, even while respecting it.

Acts 5:13
And of the rest durst no man join himself to them: but the people magnified them.

But if your church is more of a club or gang, then don’t expect anyone to treat it differently.

Reality check, people join clubs because of the benefits they get from the club.
People join churches to serve and obey their Saviour.
Are you a social group or a service group?
 

Earth Wind and Fire

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It should be comparable to “Joining a gang” … a lifetime commitment to a “family” … “blood in, blood out” … the prospective member should run a gauntlet of existing members and take their beating (proving they really WANT to be part of the family and that they have earned their place).

”That which we obtain too easily, we esteem too lightly.”

[just kidding ... mostly ... there is a little bit of truth hidden in there.]
Then you must have tattoos!
 
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