Chappie,
"Your assessment of scripture is a tad les extreme than most Calvinist that I talk to."
Well, like I say, I am a 4 pointer. I hold to unlimited atonement. That allows me to say a few things that a 5 pter can't say.
"Nevertheless, a few areas where I have questions or would like to add something are in order."
Fair enough.
"In your above statement, I find that I have no problem disagreeing with you as election is not mentioned or indicated."
No problem DIS agreeing? Or no problem agreing? Either way the reason election is not mentioned at this point is because I don't hold to doouble predestination. I don't hold that God fore-ordains people to Hell.
"Concerning Christ?s punishment, his death was sacrificial. He bore the punishment of those that le loved. To say that Christ was punished infers that he sinned. My main point was that he did not?"
Actually to say that Christ was punished is only to say that SOMEONE sinned. It does not necessarily mean that the person punished was the actual guilty party. Remember that Christ's sacrifice is prefigured in the OT by the sacrificial Lamb without blemish (See Is. 53 for example although the idea of sacrificial lamb occurs in several contexts). That Christ was to be sacrificed is evident in the words of john the Baptist "behold, the lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world".
But as I said, it does imply that someone sinned. That someone is us. Jesus bore OUR sin, was puinished for OUR sin on the Cross. 2Co. 5:21: "God made Him who knew no sin to be sin FOR US, so that in him we might bcome the righteousness of God." That's why we call Christ's death a substituionary atonement. He was our substitute, bearing our punishment. He didn;t do the crime but he "did the time" for us. Someone had to do the time after all, or there would be no punishment for sin at all. And that cannot be said to be just.
The logic of Christ bearing our sins to satisfy the wrath of the Father is summed up very well by Piper: The wisdom of God found a way for the love of God to satisfy the wrath of God without compromising the justice of God. Or words to that effect.
"I am not complaining about God?s grace, I complain bitterly concerning this so called irresistible grace that is never mentioned in the bible and is not of God.. And it is not grace because it saves some. It is grace because it is representative of God?s agape love for every single individual that he ever created. A love that seeks the wellbeing of others rather than seeks its own. God?s love, God?s grace is avai8liable to all men equally. To turn it into a grace that condemns as well as save is wrong. Men do not go to hell because God did not offer them grace, "NO"; they go to hell because they refused to embrace it."
Christ Jesus is an exampe of God's agape love for all people. But to say that God is not just because his grace would only save some is to lead you towards universal salvation. But I believe that Jesus' work is an example of God's general call, his way of showing the whole world His love. Equally. But the reality is that, as John pout it, "He was in the world, and though the world was made through Him the world did not recognise Him. He came to that which was His own, but His own did not receive Him." (jn. 1:10,11) "This is hte verdict: Light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light becuase ther deeds were evil." (Jn. 3:19) So although th elove of God was shown to all equally, all people equally reject it, becuase they love darkness and their deeds are evil.
It is becuase of this love for darkness that God uses an effectual call, one aimed at specific individuals, over and above the general call (and there are many examples of such in the Gospels) whch pierces that darkness such that people can respond to the Gospel positively and find themselves born of God. The choice of God to send that effectual call to some is election. Election then is an act of grace to allow people to respond to the gospel in a way other than that which tey ar naturally inclined to: rejection.
Now you may say that this makes God a respecter of persons. It does not. God sent Jesus for the whole world. He showed His love to the whole world. So His agape love is not restricted only to some. Everyone got the same sacrifice for sins. And the fact is that God is not a respecter of persons for the simpe fact that the basisfor aplying the atonement to a given person has nothing to do with that person. That is what it means to be a respecter of persons; to choose one person over another because of something in that person which one arbitrarily decides is of value. But there is nothing in any of us that makes us intrinsically more worthy than any other person. So the choice that God makes is not based on anything in us but everything in Him. So God is not a repecter of persons.
"I say that God reaches/touches all men persuasively enough to offer a genuine call to salvation."
I believe also that the invitation to faith is genuine. But the fact is that apart from an effectual call ALL would reject the gospel. Think about it: nothing has changed in us (humans) just because Christ died and was raised. Nothing. If we rejected Him once such that he was condemned to the Cross, what makes you think that we would suddenly be inclined to rceive Him?
"They just do not all become Calvinists."
So long as the become Christians. God will sort out their errant theology eventually, even if only in the eschaton.
"When God reaches them, he will give them the opportunity to embrace faith and come to a saving knowledge of his grace."
That's called an effectual call.
"God offers the precious gift of salvation to everyone."
That's true. But again, no one would accept it apart from an efectual call.
"He has not chosen a single one, because there is not a single one worth choosing."
Right. But election is not based on us in any way. Did you actually think that election was God choosing one person over another bcuase of something in the person?
"So he opens the door and say?s, come."
Right. Effectual call.
"Refuse the invitation and you will go to hell."
Well, even if they'd never heard the invitation they'd go there. Refusing Christ doesn't send you anywhere you weren't going to begin with.
"You will not be efficaciously graced anymore than the next man."
That's not true.
"Salvational election is simply not true."
Yes it is. Maybe not the version you have in mind, but from what I read the version you have in mind is not Calvanist.