I would offer here along with Jim and Ken the additional thought that love demands hate as well. We -- and God -- will hate what threatens or hurts that which we love. How could it be otherwise?
Regarding Esau, we read in Hebrews 11:20 that both Jacob and Esau were initially blessed in regard to their futures. This was the prophecy their mother received about the boys in her womb. However, we read then that Esau was godless, selling his birthright for a bowl of soup (Hebrews 12:15-16). He also ended up marrying pagan women, much to the distress of his parents. Thus, we see in Malachi 1 that Esau was hated and Jacob was loved. Of Esau's inheritance, the Lord says, "I have turned his mountains into a wasteland and left his inheritance to the desert jackals."
Paul reviews all of this in Romans 9:12-13 when he reminds his reader of both the blessing and the end result for each of the twins. But we are not left in doubt about why God hated Esau after having blessed him in the womb: Esau ended up godless, throwing his very birthright back in God's face, so to speak, for something to eat.
The best person to contrast this with is Jesus, who refused to turn stones into bread even when He was far hungrier than Esau ever could have been. Thus Jesus refused to give up His birthright for food, saying that man does not live by bread alone. I am quite sure the comparison between the two did not escape the early Jewish Christians, although I don't hear it spoken of now.
[ November 17, 2002, 02:55 PM: Message edited by: Helen ]