Helen...I would feel that I was insulting your intelligence to answer such a question, except that you did ask it, so apparently an answer is necessary.
God is merciful to whom He will be merciful, but not to all without exception. God is loving to whom He will be loving, but not to all without exception. He loves the righteous, and He hates the wicked. He loves those who love Him, but He hates His enemies. When you can understand these things, you will have been Divinely enlightened, I think. (You may use any standard concordance to find the scripture verses upon which the above statements are founded.)
God is just to all, except those to whom He is gracious, for Christ's sake. To them, He is merciful, Christ having satisfied God's justice in their stead. In this way, God can be both Just, and the Justifier of him that believeth, without compromising His righteousness.
God is all those things you said, without ever getting confused, or contradicting Himself, or doing wrong.
As for God allowing evil so that good might come, and permitting slavery, murder(in the heart0, lies, etc., for His eventual glory, just consider the story of Joseph and his brothers.
I would not claim to know the mind of God in all of this. But, I am taught that God is love, and good, and righteous, and wise, and He does as He pleases, and that He proclaims His own Glory in ALL things, and shows His care and goodness toward His chosen children, His sheep.
Tuor...He that allowed slavery, within certain limits, also said, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."
and "I love justice", and "Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself."
In the Name of Him Who does all things as He pleases, and does all things right, and for the good of His elect, and for His Glory, but I don't know HOW,
connieman
[ May 29, 2002, 01:01 AM: Message edited by: connieman ]