John,
You and I agree alot, (save for that whole KJV being the best thing,LOL), but I dont think many others agree with us IN REALITY. I think this has far more reaching effects that just bible translation.
Think about this: When it comes to our beliefs, doctrines, and even practices, do most Christians
REALLY want to believe and practice the TRUTH, or do we just want to be convinced that what we already believe is the truth? I feel that the true Christian would be more than willing to have any belief of his honestly challenged, and will defend it HONESTLY, not HOSTILE, until he finds himself unable to do so. I dont mean we need to be good debaters, but if we say we believe something, we should be able to express it through scripture and plain reason. Otherwise, the only honest thing to do is stop calling such an idea a "belief". Its more closely called "hearsay".
I think far too many people are being swayed by good debaters who happen to be Christians, rather than a good Christian debate. Good debaters are not necessarily intellectually honest, but rather adhere to a "win at all costs" mentality. They will go as far as they need to go, play on heartstrings, and misrepresent facts in order to convince someone of what they think the truth is.
We have an example right here on our campus. There is a freshman (just became a soph) who is a hardcore calvanist. He finds a way to bring it up constantly with others (thankfully, I have never discussed it with him. Ive only spoken to him once or twice, but we have several mutual friends). However, rather than lovingly or even fairly express his beliefs, he uses his very well honed debate skills to upset others (he will often cut you off mid-sentence and say "its ok, you dont have to be soveriegn, God is"), then uses their frustration as proof that he is right. That is how you convince people. (Even though I disagree with Calvanism, this is not meant as an attack on it, or even to bring it up, but merely as an example of the tactics some people use to spread a belief they feel is important.) I am reminded of a line from Jeffress' "Hell, Yes" (a great read, BTW), where an old man told him that "it is easy to force your opponent to disengage from a debate, as any married man can testify, but you didnt convince her of anything, except that you are a jerk."
When we bring our beliefs into the discussion, we need to be able to explain them from facts and scripture. We need to be willing to have them challenged, opposed, and refuted. Then we need to be prepared to repeat the process, either until one sees the truth, or both lovingly agree to disagree.
I feel the main problem is NOT the anger which comes from 2 opposing beliefs, but rather from one who refuses to allow their belief to be challenged honestly. When such a belief is claimed to be bound to everyone (like KJVO, predestination) then refusing to allow such a belief to be challenged is going to cause frustation.
Example: If I challenge a reading in the KJV, and back it up with manuscript evidence and Greek word study, the KJVO will be pretty offended.
How angry will they get if I refuse to support my claim?
Disagreeing with someones belief isnt an attack on that belief, whether it be about Bible translation, eternal security, baptism, or anything else. If we are Christians, we should EXPECT to be opposed.