Directed towards Brother Benjamin
Bro. Benjamin,
Do you think that man, of his own choosing, can come to God, without Him drawing him first? I hope that you do not take this as me leading you, or that I have a false motive in that question.
Now, I believe that no man will come to God apart from Him calling that man. All I can go with is my experiences. When I was a sinner, I WAS a sinner. I enjoyed it, loved it, and I guess idolized it. To serve God was the last thing I wanted to do. Sure, I had many that told me I needed to be saved(and I agreed, but I was still enjoying my sinning), and sometimes I went to church at the request of a family member or friend. But I wouldn't get anything from the singing, the preaching, hearing the members shout glories unto Him. I didn't want to be one of them. I wanted my sinful life, and that was good enough for me. There were times I would get scared of going to hell, and I would "start" going to church, but the Spirit wasn't drawing me at that time, so in time, back to my sinful life, and all the fun I was having. Then one morning, I heard a message on the radio, and it got me to thinking about where I was headed. God began drawing me, and then I started going to church. I wanted to hear the singing, the preaching, the shouts of glory praising Him....I wanted to be one of them. The Spirit was drawing me to God, but I did not know how to get there. One night, when I had done all I knew to do, I was still lost, and then God took over, and He made me over BRAND NEW!! I could not have done this on my own, but God had to first, set up a Godly sorrow(1 Cor. 7:10), then He had to draw me unto Himself(John 6:44 and 12:32), and then He saved me(Eph. 2:8,9).
Now, I agree with you on FW. I will defend FW till the day I day, or God shows me differently. It is those who fail to heed to His calling that will not come...not that they can not come, but rather, will not come.