So what do you say? Perhaps I do not understand the systems well enough and its not as if IFB Churches are exactly academic environments that encourage reading, so perhaps I have been a bit lacking on the academic side.
If memory serves, many of your posts have dealt with the "academic". Whether books on climbling the ladder of corporate success, developing personal relationships, and more. If I don't have you confused with someone else, you've talked about your budget for buying more books every month, instead of applying those dollars to a student loan. (Apologies, if my memory is faulty this morning.)
If that is fairly accurate, perhaps you should lay aside
all those books, for a while. Quit worring about "systems", "reformed", etc. Instead, just pick up the Bible and read. Even if you've done it several times before, start with Gen 1:1 and don't read another book, commentary, whatever, until you reach Rev 22:21. (Read His word in prayer for His guidance.) Put your focus totally on His word, His Word. The Word.
God isn't the author of confusion. We cannot say that about earthly authors who ply their opinions and are under the influence of both the Holy Spirit and satan. As the individual case may be.
Put these two passages of scripture
in front of anything from the world of academics.
OT: Proverbs 2: KJB
3
Yea, if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thy voice for understanding;
4 If thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures;
5 Then shalt thou understand the fear of the Lord, and find the knowledge of God.
6
For the Lord giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding.
NT: 2 Timothy 2: KJB
15
Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.
All those "labels" are far secondary to what is contained in those two passages of scripture, IMO. In some of those instances you mentioned, I don't have a clue as to which one most accurately applies to me.
In a little while, I'll be leaving the house to render service unto our Lord. Labels won't matter. What will matter, at the end of this day, is whether Jesus can say "Well done, my good and faithful servant" for my actions this day.