I am a gentile who considers himself "messianic"
I'd be happy to answer any questions you have about that. In fact, I urge you to ask the hardest questions you can think of.
how can someone be a "torah observant" baptist?
Easy! This is not necessarily the same as a completely Torah "Obedient" Baptist.
Most of the rabbis I know who lead messianic congregations were ordained as Baptists...but there are not the same denominational boundaries within messianic congregations that exist in the church. For instance, in almost any messianic congregation you will find a WIDE diversity of denominations represented.
There will be those from Catholic, Baptist, AOG, Jewish (ORthodox, Reform, and Conservative), Pentecostals, Methodists, etc....
You will find wide varying opinions on the gifts of the spirit, rapture timing, and other controversial topics which divide the body of Christ at large. We are not going to let that stuff divide us...We are one in the Spirit and love for Yeshua is what holds us together.
There are some verrrry bad messianic congregations just as there are some very bad Baptist churches....but for the most part we are as orthodox and fundamental as any church except for the fact that we express our faith in a hebraic perspective. There is much celebration and joy in our praise...and much reverence in our worship.
I won't judge you for keeping all the pagan holidays if you won't judge me for keeping the Biblical ones, ok?
Now...did that last statement hurt just a little? This is how I see it when someone accuses us of being legalists because we seek to find value in the whole Bible.
I had a Bacon cheeseburger yesterday. It is an unclean meat in the "Torah" (which is literally translated as "instruction" rather than "law")
As Paul says, "All things are permissable but not all things edify"
This means I can eat paint if I want to but why would I do that if it harms me? This is the same way we interpret eating unclean meats....or other passages in the Torah.
No one was ever saved by the Law....we realize this fact as well any of you do.
But that is not the same thing as saying that there is no value whatsoever in knowing what the Torah says about any given subject and seeking to understand "why" a commandment is given.
The Torah is still righteous and good and useful for instruction. The penalty for transgressions has been paid and I am free from sin...but what we reap we shall sow.
In my opinion, the larger Body of Christ could use a good understanding of the Sabbath. It all about making time for fellowship with the saints
I move in the church and messianic congregations equally...I know how busy it gets. What you would call a "pot luck dinner" we call an Oneg and every congregation I know does that at least once a month. Some do it every Shabbat.
We have seasonal celebrations [which can be found in the Bible] that remind us constantly of the basics of our faith. This also gives us many opportunities to teach our children what they forgot from last year
And it gives us specific times to enjoy each other without a "program". It's about loving our neighbor. That's hard to do if you only see the back of their head for an hour on Sunday.