BobRyan said:
By GRACE you are saved through faith and that NOT of works lest anyone should boast.
ALL are sinners ALL are condemned by the Law of God so that no one can recommend themselvs for salvation on any basis at all but the blood of Christ. NO ammount of works EARNS salvation - not by Paul, not by Peter not by you and not by me.
BUT you CAN lose salvation JUST as the Bible says AND on the BASIS that the Bible says you can lose it.
Matt 18 - Forgiveness revoked.
John 15 - those REMOVED from Christ, branches that dry up and are burned to ashes do NOT reattach themselves later to the vine.
Romans 11 like the unbelieving Jews REMOVED from Christ
That is the long and short of it sir.
Bob
I don't want to comment the other parts of your post.
But simply I can say your confession is OK for the matter of salvation.
I have several friends of Wesleyan which teaches One can lose the salvation, but surely have the conviction of the salvation.
As for your Bible quotes, I would comment as follows:
Matt 18 : the servant was wrong from the beginning and misunderstood the forgiveness from the beginning: Read verse 26 : I will pay thee all !
Can anyone pay all for their sins? It is a parable and doesn't disprove OSAS! If he believed that his debt was forgiven by Grace, he wouldn't have been so much cruel against his fellow servants !
John 15 : If anyone is born again, he or she abides in Jesus all the time, but any activities departing from the Lord Jesus will be burnt as we read 1 Cor 3:10-15. Read verse 15 - If any man's work shall be burnt, he shall suffer loss but he himself shall be saved, yet so as by fire.
So, what they lose is not the salvation, but the reward for their works.
Again I don't judge the salvation of the people by a few differences in the doctrines, and you may misunderstand many things though you may have the clear and good conviction of Salvation by the Blood of Jesus Christ Once For All. But my conviction is that no one can lose the salvation once the person was accepted by God thru Jesus Christ.
This is how I try to avoid the Friendly Fires which may occur often in the Chrisitan world.