I question whether it is theology at all. As your post demonstrates with the dilemma, the issue is philosophy. Theology would be studying "what is written" rather than being carried away from the biblical narrative and context. The determinism vs free-will issue begins with ancient Greek philosophy, not Hebrew thought.Theology dilemma: If the desire to love God is given to a person by an act of God's sovereignty, is it really love?
We view genuine love as a voluntary act rather than something pre-determined by a forced congruence: they only love God because that's the way God made them.
Rob
Hebrew thought (from the ANE period through the LIA) had no issue accepting both divine sovereignty and human free-will. We have a problem with it because we have a secular Western worldview.
But if we adopt a biblical worldview then this topic does not exist (there are no Calvinists or Arminians within a biblical worldview).
The obvious problem is we are Western people. I am simply saying we need to remember this "problem" is our problem. It is not a biblical issue but an issue of our worldview and therefore cannot (IMHO) be properly considered "theology"and the first step in theology is to study within the biblical worldview.