Hi brothers and sisters!
I have a problem in my life that I really want to share and I hope I will get advice on it because I really need some help.
I will start by giving you a little bit of background about myself so you can understand better my situation: I am a student, I am 19 years old and I've been baptized the last year (2020) in summer .
My problem is that I did came with a sincere heart to god but I have to say that I am not really sure if I was born again or if I am a true christian and this concers me a lot.
I was addicted to watching adult movies and sadfully even after baptize I still live like that . Many times I just put god appart and just mind my own buissnies wich is not good.
I had a habbit where I was praying 20mins in the morning and now I don't have that much of a habbit.
Ok, and now let's get to the root of the problem: now due to stress in university it happens that I have panick attack and what is interesting and this what I wanted to talk about in the first place is that having a panick attack feels a little bit like dying : you suddenly feel that you can't breath , your have weird sensation like your heart is stopping and just like you leave your body and just die, and my big problem is that I think that as a christian we should not fear death, but I have to say that in that moments I start to yield and say that I am dying and I am so terrified because I know that if I die I will go to eternal punishment and I try to make somehow to be heared so even if something is happeping with me there is someone who can resusicate me or something like that.
But I realize that I am truly afraid of death. The problem that I want to address here is not how to solve panick attacks because I will get medication but the problem is HOW DO I CHANGE MY LIFE?
What should I do to live a holy life, and to be so close to god that even a panick attacks came or even if it is not a panick attack and my life has came to end I can be sure that I am in god's hands and I am saved.
I think that I would help a lot for me to really be sure that God doesen't hate me, and that before God I am clean and even if the worst thing happens to me( wich is death for me) I am not panicked but I am calm .
Because death scarifies me, maybe I will get treatement but one day as all here I will have to face it too.
And I want to live a life in such a way that even if my death time came I am calm.
The worst part of panick attacks is feeling like slowly you are leaving this body , even if is just a sesation the real thing scares me: the fear of dying. And I think that as a true chrisitian you should not be afraid of death, but I am so terrified and I don't know how to solve it.
Please pray for me , and if you have any suggestions about what should I do to change my life and how should I really get prepared for dying so even if die or even if it's just a panick attack I can feel safe and I can be sure that I am forgiven.The tought that after death I will go to hell because I realise that my life is not that way god's wants me to live it.
Please pray for me that trough this panick attacks , even if they do not provoke death but I can be truly become ready for dying.
I have to say that I live in such a way like I have to live 100 years or more.
In the end if there are any suggestions or habbits that I can implement or something that I can actively do to solve this issue I would love to hear them.
I currently just have one habbit:reading the bible every single day but I feel I need a change.
I have to apologize for my english , is not my native language.
God bless you all!!
I have a problem in my life that I really want to share and I hope I will get advice on it because I really need some help.
I will start by giving you a little bit of background about myself so you can understand better my situation: I am a student, I am 19 years old and I've been baptized the last year (2020) in summer .
My problem is that I did came with a sincere heart to god but I have to say that I am not really sure if I was born again or if I am a true christian and this concers me a lot.
I was addicted to watching adult movies and sadfully even after baptize I still live like that . Many times I just put god appart and just mind my own buissnies wich is not good.
I had a habbit where I was praying 20mins in the morning and now I don't have that much of a habbit.
Ok, and now let's get to the root of the problem: now due to stress in university it happens that I have panick attack and what is interesting and this what I wanted to talk about in the first place is that having a panick attack feels a little bit like dying : you suddenly feel that you can't breath , your have weird sensation like your heart is stopping and just like you leave your body and just die, and my big problem is that I think that as a christian we should not fear death, but I have to say that in that moments I start to yield and say that I am dying and I am so terrified because I know that if I die I will go to eternal punishment and I try to make somehow to be heared so even if something is happeping with me there is someone who can resusicate me or something like that.
But I realize that I am truly afraid of death. The problem that I want to address here is not how to solve panick attacks because I will get medication but the problem is HOW DO I CHANGE MY LIFE?
What should I do to live a holy life, and to be so close to god that even a panick attacks came or even if it is not a panick attack and my life has came to end I can be sure that I am in god's hands and I am saved.
I think that I would help a lot for me to really be sure that God doesen't hate me, and that before God I am clean and even if the worst thing happens to me( wich is death for me) I am not panicked but I am calm .
Because death scarifies me, maybe I will get treatement but one day as all here I will have to face it too.
And I want to live a life in such a way that even if my death time came I am calm.
The worst part of panick attacks is feeling like slowly you are leaving this body , even if is just a sesation the real thing scares me: the fear of dying. And I think that as a true chrisitian you should not be afraid of death, but I am so terrified and I don't know how to solve it.
Please pray for me , and if you have any suggestions about what should I do to change my life and how should I really get prepared for dying so even if die or even if it's just a panick attack I can feel safe and I can be sure that I am forgiven.The tought that after death I will go to hell because I realise that my life is not that way god's wants me to live it.
Please pray for me that trough this panick attacks , even if they do not provoke death but I can be truly become ready for dying.
I have to say that I live in such a way like I have to live 100 years or more.
In the end if there are any suggestions or habbits that I can implement or something that I can actively do to solve this issue I would love to hear them.
I currently just have one habbit:reading the bible every single day but I feel I need a change.
I have to apologize for my english , is not my native language.
God bless you all!!