With scripture of course:
Rom 5:6 For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Rom 5:7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die.
Rom 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
A god that is only concerned with himself, wouldn't have done the above. Thats an extremely self centered god you have described (or rather J. Edwards has described). Scripture describes the God I follow much more genrously than the OP.
Dear Brother or Sister, I cannot remember which, that passage proves Edwards contention.
God COMMENDETH... He shows his love for us. Shows it.
Why did Christ die for sinners? That God might SHOW his love for us.
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