Here's my story and I'm sticking w/it:
From abt Aug 1972 - Jan 1996, I was a member of a church in Clarksville TN. Absolutely the worst waste of time were the Business Meeting(s) where Bro So-and-so, after a motion & second moved to support Missionary So-and-so for $10/mo (Of course that was back in 1972, and to the best of my knowledge that $10/mo was
never adjusted to represent any annual COLA. Not sure how many pastors we have today who were pastoring back in 1972 who never asked for a salary increase since then....But I digress.:smilewinkgrin

, etc., etc., ad nauseum.
Our Wed night "prayer" service consisted of "any prayer requests" & then the pastor proceeded on w/His latest rant on whatever...But again I digress.
Long story short, for the most part I dreaded the business meeting(s).
Then when I moved to UCLA (Upper Corner of Lower Antioch [TN -- SE part of Nashville] :smilewinkgrin

in late 1995, I came to a church that was in the process of transitioning to a elder-led type-of church govt. (Prior to that, she held an ANNUAL business mtg in the fall!)
Is my church "perfect in all her ways?" Of course not....They let me join didn't they? :tongue3:....All that to say this....If Sis Sapphira or Bro Ahab still have any questions/comments, the weekly Elders' mtg(s) are open for "civilians," and if either or both can't attend, then our records are open to them at any time.
Moreover, we still have deacons, and they help with the Lord's Supper as well as visit the sick, shutins, etc. When you join w/us, you're "assigned" to a deacon of your owning choosing.
Finally, my church is a "cell-based" [We prefer to call them "Life Groups."] church. While our elders will visit any who ask, we've found that, apart from our Sunday morning "Corporate" services, it's better to "do life" that way.
NOW, am I
against any other form of church life? Of course not. What works for any other church may not work in the way "we do things" (We
are autonomous, aren't we?).
As I said above, "That's my story & I'm sticking w/it."
OK....."RELEASE THE HOUNDS"! :laugh: