(A.) No amount of watering down the meaning of the word hate can mean it to be any other but an emotion of intense dislike, a detesting of someone or something.
(B.)...but what if he titled his website "God hates sodomy" or "God hates homosexuality", will we even raise an eyebrow ?
(C.) I just could not understand, even when I was Arminian, how God could love the world and all mankind, send his Son to save "all mankind", and then, in the end, destroy the world He says He loves, and punish men who do not accept His work in Christ.[/quote]
(A.) I did not water down the meaning of the word hate. Certainly, there are places in the bible where "hate" means a scornful despising or intensely "unloved". Luke 14:26 is obviously not one of them. And it is my understanding that Malachi 1:2-3 is not one of the either.
(B.) But Fred Phelps didn't say "God hates sodomy". Sodomy is practice or a "lifestyle". "Fags" are people. Yes, God hates sodomy. But Fred Phelps didn't say that. He didn't say that God hates sin. Fred Phelps says that God hates Americans, Canadians, and homosexuals. His claim is that God hates humanity. You are right. No one would blink an eye if he simply said, "God hates homosexuality." But that isn't what he said.
(C.) Brother, I hope that you didn't become a Calvinist just to make the bible "fit" your belief system. That's awfully dangerous territory for anybody.....C's, A's, denomination jumpers, preacher followers,.....And just because you don't understand how God could allow part of his creation that he loved to enter hell does not mean that it is not so.
It called God's justice.