Since you asked:
>I bet Jesus' prayer in Gethsemane really bothers you, eh Bill?
No. It demonstrates his humanity. Jesus was as afraid as any of us would have been. It gives a little support to the heresy that teaches that "The Christ" came upon Jesus at his baptism and left Jesus before his arrest.
>Muslims often say, "Allah wills it." Is that your view?
Someplace (in Isaiah?) God says, "I bring good and I bring evil." God takes ultimate responsibility even if he is working through Satan.
I think prayer does more to change the praying person than to change human events. I have no personal complaints about God. Every personal problem I have had was due to my personal stupidity and bad choices. I thank God for bailing me out when I screw up. I especially thank my Guardian Angel for protection on the freeway.
But you tell me . . . what is the substance of the congregational prayer requests you hear? Thanks for the lessons learned during a heart attack? Thanks for failed crops or requests for different weather conditions?
The goofiest form of prayer request is, "person had medical tests done last week. We pray that she will have good results next week." In other words, if the conditions tested for were bad, please change history, heal the body and change the MRI pictures."