Join a fundamental Baptist church.

I am a preacher in a missionary baptist church and the Lord showed me the truth about His pre-millennial coming and the rapture and some things about applying the Bible to my life. Now I feel led to join an independent Bible-believing Baptist church that is more committed to standards, missions and obeying the Bible because I cannot prosper in my current church environment. I can't share what I really stand for and can't preach what I really believe. So many of the missionary baptist churches are amillennial, don't preach standards and don't practice much in missions. The Lord is leading me to mission work in Germany because that's where I'm from. The current church environment is too much meeting, greeting, Sunday-morning Christianity and it feels spiritually dead to me. My wife, however, is very attached to people in the missionary baptist church because she grew up among these people. I don't get any preaching appointments anymore because folks know I'm not a Baptist brider anymore. What should I do in such a situation? I've asked the Lord about this. I would like to join an independent, Bible-believing church together as a family and just by myself. My wife likes everything about the Bible-believing church I'm talking about, but she fears the response of the people in the missionary baptist church whom she got so attached to. I know we need to obey God more than man. I don't like this spiritual "peer pressure" that is hindering our family and hampering my ministry. Please pray for this situation that we do the Lord's will. If you have a word of godly advice, please let us know.