Php 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
This is our standard. What's the problem with allowing each individual to decide for him/herself what is proper and what isn't? Do we not all have the same Holy Spirit to guide us?
Do I really need anyone outside the Holy Spirit and scriptures to tell me how to dress, what to watch, where to go, who to be with, etc? Are we still children in need of instruction?
As far as dress and our jobs go, each job is different with a different set of rules. You would show up to McDonalds in a 3 piece suit would you? Now do you want to set up a standard by which to go to church based on what one wears to work? Think about it!
And this whole "give your best unto the Lord" mentality that usually excuses such nonsense can be extremely divisive when that poor hick from the edge of town shows up to church in his overalls! How many people have we kept from church because we expect them to dress differently on Sunday than wht they do the rest of the week. Does God look at me any different on Sunday than He does on Friday night? Or Tuesday morning?
Movies? There are good ones and bad ones. Can we not tell the difference, just as we do with our reading material? What about it being a "movie" makes going to see one a sin?
Oh wait, I know this one: Its the dark theater where folks might be ummm, "holding hands".

No, that's not it, cause hotel rooms are easy and cheap nowdays. How about, I know!
Its Hollywood and all the those unholy people involved in creating them. That's it! We see poor Lindsay Lohann on the news every evening with some new bit of trouble she's gotten into. Bunch of faithless, unholy people.

But, the Bible says that such were we before we got saved.
Is Lindsay really any different than the pregnant cashier at Walmart who you've heard doesn't have a husband? We support the store that allows her to work, what difference is it if we watch a good product that comes from Hollywood but that allows Lindsay to work? (albeit, probably at a different project!)
We're a bunch of hypocrits. I include myself in that. There but for the grace of God I go. It is one thing for us to live to a standard that shows Christ in all we do. Its another to have standards for the sake of having standards. That is what the world does. Its called secular humanism.
The fruits of the Spirit are
love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, and if we get these right, the standards will be there.