Need some advice

This may be in the wrong category, and I apologize if it is, but I couldn't figure out where to post it.

I've been convicted that I do not want my children to attend any school dances even though they are very young still, I do not want them going when they get to that age. Well, I got to thinking about it, and thought maybe I could work with my church to come up with some alternative activities for them to do the nights the schools have dances going on. Then, I was convicted that there are young people now that could use alternatives now. So, I talked to my preacher and our youth minister about it and they were all for getting something like that started. The thing is, we aren't sure exactly what to do. Do any of you go to a church that provides anything like this? I'm especially thinking about prom night alternatives. If you are familiar with a program like this and could help give me some advice, or, even if you aren't and have some ideas you could throw my way, could you please? Thanks.