ReformedBaptist said:
The text does not say this. This is the problem with arminian election....It is impossible for them not to come, either in the evangelical arminian scheme or the calvinist.
I recommend reading and tutoring outside of the fractional camp of Calvinists and/or exclusive Reformed thinkers that have lead you to practice referring to non-calvinists as arminian. It appears you have been theological reduced to believing there are only two possible camps, arminian or calvinistic. Even if you wish to hold to Calvinism/Reformed Theology, this approach to non-Calvinistic theology will bring injury to yourself over the long haul.
There are some good thoughtful resources within the Calvinist/Reformed camps that refrain from such oversimplifications in their writings and dialogues and I encourage you to consider their influence.
ReformedBaptist said:
We are chosen not because of anything in us (either repentence on our own, faith on our own, contrition on our own, et.) but because God willed to do so. He willed to do so because it seemed good to Him to do it. Therefore it is all of grace. This is exactly what the Scriptures teach and robs man of all the glory of his salvation.
(My emphasis)
I have never discovered an adequate explanation (I have read and heard many attempts to respond) that can effectively make the case for the claim that man responding to the gospel somehow ROBS GOD of His glory in salvation.
This ideology is based on the erroneous belief that in some way God either loses some aspect of his Sovereignty or Omnipotence if the gift of salvation is in any way received or responded to by man in any volitional capacity.
The problem is, though the "SPIRITUAL" emanates from God he CONSISTENTLY and repeatedly, throughout Scripture, leaves its use and benefit in our hands.
"Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shalt be saved"
"Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind"
"Be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess but but ye filled with the Spirit"
Hey let's take that last one. "Be ye filled with the Spirit". Now obviously N

NE is going to be filled (i.e. controlled or yielded) with the Spirit unless what? They make the choice to acquiesce to His presence and work. Demonstratively in Scripture we see this being done through walking in the light as He is in the light. Not walking according to the flesh.
While this Spiritual phenomenon known as "being filled with the Spirit" cannot be accomplished through HUMAN RIGHTEOUSNESS (a work that attempts to merit the filling of the Spirit), it still involved HUMAN CHOICE. If I do not choose to be filled then I will not be. I will then be choosing to walk in the flesh.
Is God ROBBED of His Glory because whether I am filled or not is contingent upon MY making that choice to yield? Of course not and do not misunderstand me. The actual filling of the Spirit is God's doing but it is CONTINGENT upon my yielding ("be ye filled" is present passive meaning "allow yourself to be filled" hence where yieldedness is drawn).
In fact I submit that Calvinism is what robs God of His glory. God's glory is the offering of salvation to ALL mankind and the propitiation of salvation by Christ for all men so that those humans, from Adam onward, REGARDLESS of the severity of their sinfulness and their undeserving state, had, have and will have available to them the gracious, merciful and eternal offer of salvation. That is God's glory.
It is quite clear in not just the three verses I noted and the one I focused upon but throughout Scripture, God's glory is never robbed in any capacity because it includes by Divine design the volition of humanity to accomplish His work. My belief is that this limited and short-sighted view of Calvinism is ultimately based upon those who attempt to understand the entirety of Divine Sovereignty and impose upon it their human limitations.