Here is how I see events, as I always say I have been known to be wrong.
* Hell is in the lower parts of the earth.
Eze 32:24 There [is] Elam and all her multitude round about her grave, all of them slain, fallen by the sword, which are gone down uncircumcised into the nether parts of the earth, which caused their terror in the land of the living; yet have they borne their shame with them that go down to the pit
* Paradise was alongside hell so the rich man could see Lazarus in paradise
(Abrahams bosom)
Lu 16:23 And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom.
Lu 16:26 And beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that [would come] from thence
* When Jesus died he went to paradise. In centre of the earth.
Lu 23:43 And Jesus said unto him, Verily I say unto thee, Today shalt thou be with me in paradise.
Mt 12:40 For as Jonas was three days and three nights in the whale’s belly; so shall the Son of man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth.
* During that time in he also went to hell across the gulf that divided the two. (And I believe he got the keys of hell. And also left our sin there)
1Pe 3:18 ¶ For Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God, being put to death in the flesh, but quickened by the Spirit:
1Pe 3:19 By which also he went and preached unto the spirits in prison;
1Pe 3:20 Which sometime were disobedient, when once the longsuffering of God waited in the days of Noah, while the ark was a preparing, wherein few, that is, eight souls were saved by water.
When he rose 3rd day Many not all saints arose and went into the city
(We don’t know what happened to them. Wether like Lazarus they
lived for a while and died again, Or went with Christ to heaven)
Mt 27:52 And the graves were opened; and many bodies of the saints which slept arose,
53 And came out of the graves after his resurrection,
* The rest of OT saints Jesus took to heaven transporting all of them.
Eph 4:8 Wherefore he saith, When he ascended up on high, he led captivity captive, and gave gifts unto men.
* As Paul went there later and it is now in the 3rd heaven
2Co 12:4 How that he was caught up into paradise, and heard unspeakable words, which it is not lawful for a man to utter.
Before he let anyone touch him he took the blood and OT saints to heaven.
Jesus was to ascend to the father as our high priest, as in OT the priest was not to be defiled by touching anyone before going into the Holy of Holies.
So Jesus our High priest was about to take his blood to heaven to sprinkle it on the mercy seat in heaven then return to earth . that is when the others could hold him.
Heb 12:22 But ye are come unto mount Sion, and unto the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem, and to an innumerable company of angels,
Heb 12:24 And to Jesus the mediator of the new covenant, and to the blood of sprinkling, that speaketh better things than [that of] Abel
Heb 9:23 ¶ [It was] therefore necessary that the patterns of things in the heavens should be purified with these; but the heavenly things themselves with better sacrifices than these.
Heb 9:24 For Christ is not entered into the holy places made with hands, [which are] the figures of the true; but into heaven itself, now to appear in the presence of God for us:
Once this was done the women could touch him, which would take the Lord about 2 seconds or less.