What does it mean to be spiritually dead?
Totally spiritual dead?
unable to even respond to God by ourselves, or able to respond by our own violation?
What does Bible mean when referring to "being dead in our sins and transgressions" before God?
think this would directly bear on question on just HOW man receives the salvation by/in jesus Christ!
Death causes separation. When we are physically alive, we are "with" others, we have relationships. But when we are physically dead, our relationships end, we are no longer with others.
When Adam sinned, it caused a spiritual and physical separation from God, he died spiritually that very day, and was tossed out of the garden, physically separated from God.
So being spiritually dead means we are separated from God. Next, the dead cannot reestablish those relationships they enjoyed while alive. So to be spiritually dead means a person can do nothing to reestablish a relationship with God.
Now where we part company is does this condition of being spiritually dead also include the inability to seek God, to desire to establish a relationship, and to strive to obey His direction that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. This is where, in my opinion, Calvinism goes too far, and makes an assertion not backed up scripturally.
Paul tells us of two kinds of people in Romans 9:30-33 that are striving to establish a relationship with God, one group by works and one group by faith.
Clearly then, some folks who are spiritually dead desire to be saved, and these are the people who "will" and "run" to be saved. But their salvation does not depend on their willing or running, but on God who has mercy on whom He has mercy.
Bottom line, the idea that being spiritually dead means a person is unable to understand and respond to the gospel is unbiblical as demonstrated by verse after verse after verse. But only God can make a person "alive together with Christ" transferring a person from the realm of darkness into the kingdom of God. And He makes this choice because He and He alone credits the worthless faith of spiritually dead people as righteousness.
God Bless