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"Porn Star Turned XXX Church Leader"?

delizzle

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Brittni De La Mora spent almost a decade in the porn industry — until she found Jesus. She met members of XXXchurch, a ministry that helps people overcome pornography addiction, and they helped her discover her sense of worth, she said. Now, she's set to lead the church with her husband, Richard, at a time when the two are expecting their first child. "My husband and I will be the new faces of XXXchurch.com," De La Mora shared on the website. "We are humbled and honored that God has called us to this ministry." Craig Gross, who recently launched ChristianCannabis.com to start a broader dialogue about pot and faith after his own journey of healing, made the announcement last Friday on the XXXchurch website. He had led the online parachurch group for 17 years. "I have seen this ministry grow beyond my wildest dreams. From our very first outreach in 2002 at the largest porn show in the nation to the millions of people struggling with addiction that have found a safe place of hope, healing, and recovery here," Gross said in a statement. It's something that has been on his mind since 2013, and earlier this year he said he heard the Lord tell him:

“Give XXXchurch to Brittni and Rich De La Mora to lead." "Brittni is a former porn star we met while she was still in the industry, and we fostered a relationship with her as she began hers with Christ. What God has done in her life in the last seven years is nothing short of a beautiful miracle," he said. De La Mora shared she heard about XXXchurch while she was still active in porn.

"I used to call them the 'Jesus Loves Porn Stars People,'" she said. "This message pierced my heart. I used to wonder, 'Could Jesus really love me? Because I sure don’t deserve it. I sell myself for money. How could He ever love me?' "But XXXchurch showed me with their continuous acts of love and kindness that YES, Jesus really did love me," De La Mora continued. "In fact, He loved me so much that He refused to leave me in my misery. Who would have ever thought that in my sin, God would connect me with a ministry that many years later He would ask me to lead? Certainly not me, but this is the grace of our God." "To know that this is who will lead this ministry brings a smile to my face like no other," Gross added. "I could never have seen that coming 17 years ago when we went to our first porn show and everyone was asking why I was doing this ministry." Gross said he will continue offering the couple guidance. "We believe that God is going to do a new thing in this ministry," De La Mora said. "There have been so many lives that have been greatly impacted by the work of the XXXchurch.com, mine included, but God is not done yet."
Former porn star set to lead XXXchurch as founder focuses on 'Christian Cannabis'

Does anyone else find this a little disturbing?
 

Benjamin

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What’s disturbing?
The founder leaving to pursue a ministry of "Christian Cannabis" - "about pot and faith after his own journey of healing" and that saying that God "told him" to, “Give XXXchurch to Brittni and Rich De La Mora to lead." pretty much demonstrates that his incompetence to make such a judgment. As per the X-porn star who turned her life around stepping into the leadership role, who knows, not much is said about her beliefs, but I'd tend to suspect what they know about God is in large part Pentecostal like liberal theology leading a lot of people with itching ears into theological errors.
 

John of Japan

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Apparently the lady got saved, and the XXXchurch (not a church, really, since it's only online) seems to aim at helping porn addicts, so that's good, since that is a huge problem among Christians. Seems like the article should be much stronger about how bad that stuff is, though. Maybe they are radical against it, but the article doesn't say. If she's preaching/pastoring, I would have a big problem with it, but it's only some online thing.

I find it far more disturbing that the guy advocates recreational cannabis. He's not just advocating medical THB. That is just wrong. Getting high on weed falls under the Biblical category of drunkenness, condemned over and over. He even says Christians have "freedom" in this area, which ignores the addictive nature of the drug.

As for his headaches being healed, my wife had migraines for decades, but we found a good chiropractor near by after moving to the USA, and now they are virtually gone--with no drugs.
 

FollowTheWay

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Apparently the lady got saved, and the XXXchurch (not a church, really, since it's only online) seems to aim at helping porn addicts, so that's good, since that is a huge problem among Christians. Seems like the article should be much stronger about how bad that stuff is, though. Maybe they are radical against it, but the article doesn't say. If she's preaching/pastoring, I would have a big problem with it, but it's only some online thing.

I find it far more disturbing that the guy advocates recreational cannabis. He's not just advocating medical THB. That is just wrong. Getting high on weed falls under the Biblical category of drunkenness, condemned over and over. He even says Christians have "freedom" in this area, which ignores the addictive nature of the drug.

As for his headaches being healed, my wife had migraines for decades, but we found a good chiropractor near by after moving to the USA, and now they are virtually gone--with no drugs.
Are you speaking out for prohibition of alcohol (drunkenness)? We tried that once before and it increased crime.
 

Wingman68

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I am pro pot. Many reasons. It can be a life saver for PTSD sufferers who can then go on with their lives.

In my opinion the only way you can classify it as a gateway drug is when it’s illegal & you have to go through getting it from someone who may want to sell you on other really addictive drugs.

I don’t view it any differently than I would any other crop that provides sustenance, but that’s just me. Food is a necessity but does you no good if you’re dead or too sick to eat, as in either physical illness or depression.

Your family needs you, loves you, wants you to be happy, & you need to do the same for them. You need more time to find your way to the light when you are in a dark or painful place. It can be a facilitator for that without turning you into a street urchin. I’d take it over a prescription drug any day.
 

MartyF

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Well, I looked into it some more.

Now, I am for the legalization of all drugs but I do not support the use any drug - including alcohol and tobacco.

What I found disturbing after looking at his website is that the guy is going to use Christianity to sell Cannabis. He’s using Christianity as a selling tool. Yes, that is disturbing.

I have fewer problems with a repentant porn star helping to run a church than an unrepentant Augustine or Calvin doing the same.
 

John of Japan

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Are you speaking out for prohibition of alcohol (drunkenness)? We tried that once before and it increased crime.
No, these guys are supposed to be Christians, right? So I'm speaking of:

Eze 23:33 Thou shalt be filled with drunkenness and sorrow, with the cup of astonishment and desolation, with the cup of thy sister Samaria.
Lu 21:34 And take heed to yourselves, lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting, and drunkenness, and cares of this life, and [so] that day come upon you unawares.
Ro 13:13 Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying. {honestly: or, decently}
Ga 5:21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told [you] in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

And literally dozens of other verses condemning drunkenness, and therefore being "high" on drugs.
 

FollowTheWay

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No, these guys are supposed to be Christians, right? So I'm speaking of:

Eze 23:33 Thou shalt be filled with drunkenness and sorrow, with the cup of astonishment and desolation, with the cup of thy sister Samaria.
Lu 21:34 And take heed to yourselves, lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting, and drunkenness, and cares of this life, and [so] that day come upon you unawares.
Ro 13:13 Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying. {honestly: or, decently}
Ga 5:21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told [you] in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

And literally dozens of other verses condemning drunkenness, and therefore being "high" on drugs.
I'm not arguing for drunkenness at all whether it be by alcohol or marijuana. Hower, the New Testament does not say alcohol in moderation is necessary unless we are with someone for whom one drink is a problem, e.g. an alcoholic.
 

InTheLight

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I'm not arguing for drunkenness at all whether it be by alcohol or marijuana. Hower, the New Testament does not say alcohol in moderation is necessary unless we are with someone for whom one drink is a problem, e.g. an alcoholic.
To clarify, you are saying the New Testament does not prohibit getting drunk. Unless you're with someone that has a problem with alcohol. Is that correct?

Sent from my Pixel 2 XL
 

Alofa Atu

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I am pro pot. Many reasons. It can be a life saver for PTSD sufferers who can then go on with their lives..
I am pro-Wheat, and warn about the Tares (weed). Many reasons (scriptural, KJB). There are many who have seen, experienced serious trauma in life, due to war, violence, etc and struggle with those in their minds, generally termed PTSD, and the LIFE SAVIOUR, Jesus Christ, can cause those who suffer such to go on to New Lives, forgetting those things which are past.

Jesus could have numbed his own mind upon the Cross, but chose not to.
 

John of Japan

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I'm not arguing for drunkenness at all whether it be by alcohol or marijuana. Hower, the New Testament does not say alcohol in moderation is necessary unless we are with someone for whom one drink is a problem, e.g. an alcoholic.
I really don't know what you are saying here.
 

Wingman68

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I am pro-Wheat, and warn about the Tares (weed). Many reasons (scriptural, KJB). There are many who have seen, experienced serious trauma in life, due to war, violence, etc and struggle with those in their minds, generally termed PTSD, and the LIFE SAVIOUR, Jesus Christ, can cause those who suffer such to go on to New Lives, forgetting those things which are past.

Jesus could have numbed his own mind upon the Cross, but chose not to.
We are not Jesus. We are weak. The wars since WWll, are not the same. The enemy is more than likely not wearing a uniform. Often women & children are involved. We ask a lot of our military with sometimes insane rules of engagement. We haven’t supported returning soldiers who witnessed or had to partake in things beyond the imagination, as in our Vietnam vets who now, after all these years are getting a small bit of thanks for their service after being ostracized on top of the horrors of war that they survived. If one man chooses not to end his life today, & is then allowed the time to make things right, I’m good with that. If pot helped him get there, I’m good with that too.
 

FollowTheWay

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We are not Jesus. We are weak. The wars since WWll, are not the same. The enemy is more than likely not wearing a uniform. Often women & children are involved. We ask a lot of our military with sometimes insane rules of engagement. We haven’t supported returning soldiers who witnessed or had to partake in things beyond the imagination, as in our Vietnam vets who now, after all these years are getting a small bit of thanks for their service after being ostracized on top of the horrors of war that they survived. If one man chooses not to end his life today, & is then allowed the time to make things right, I’m good with that. If pot helped him get there, I’m good with that too.
I support the solders because they didn't start the wars starting with Vietnam. Actually, I support those who had the guts to fight and those who had the guts to demonstrate against these wars or not fight them.
 

FollowTheWay

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To clarify, you are saying the New Testament does not prohibit getting drunk. Unless you're with someone that has a problem with alcohol. Is that correct?

Sent from my Pixel 2 XL
Do you understand the statement "alcohol in moderation?" That's what I said. Try to actually read my posts before criticizing them.
 

InTheLight

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Do you understand the statement "alcohol in moderation?" That's what I said. Try to actually read my posts before criticizing them.

Oh, was I criticizing? I thought I was politely asking for clarification.

Here is what you wrote:

"the New Testament does not say alcohol in moderation is necessary"

So, if moderation is not necessary what are the alternatives? Not abstinence, because I know the NT doesn't say that. In fact there were people getting drunk on communion wine and Paul asked them why they didn't drink at home. (I Cor 11:21-22) So if abstinence is not taught and you say moderation is not necessary, I assumed you meant getting drunk was OK. Is it?
 
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