Scarlett O. said:
I don't think this concept of a 6-month-old practicing an intended deception is up for grabs at all! I think it's ridiculous.
Surely, we all know that we are born with a sin nature and that self-centeredness is one of the basic roots of our sin nature. I'll not deny that.
But why does a 6-month-old crying for its mother when it's not hungry or dirty or in pain constitute "deception" or "self-centeredness"?
I don't think it's "fake crying" at all! It's REAL crying. The baby wants its mother. Maybe he/she just needs to hear the comfort of her voice or just wants her to tickle his/her tummy.
But a 6-month-old infant crying, then stopping to listen for a response from its mother, is not self-centeredness.
It's the only survival/communication skill he/she has at 6 months old. It's not a temper tantrum.
Now, if a 4-year-old is throwing a temper tantrum because he/she didn't get to eat a cookie before dinner and if he/she thinks that crying really loud and giving a good stomping of the feet will make Mother come a running with a cookie in her hand, so he/she cries really loud, then peeks around the corner to see if Mother is coming down the hall, then starts screaming in louder decibels.....then, yes....that's extreme selfishness on the part of the child.
A 4-year-old understands the concept of lies and truth.....manipulation and obedience.
A 6-month-old does not.
I just find this notion incredible.