Should she have went to the funeral

Just my opinion.....

.....She disrespected her mother in life by cutting off all communications and by not allowing her to see her own grandchildren because she was angry with the father.

She had the right to attend her father's funeral, but she should have come alone and sat in the back.

By bringing her entire posse of people, she was not there to honor her deceased father or living mother. She was there, at best, from a purely selfish motive and at worst, to spit on the memory of the father.

I feel sorry for the mother.