The express road to humility starts with self denial.
First ask for the grace of humility daily, because to think you can achieve this Chief Virtue by yourself is pride. The journey to humility is the greatest journey of discovery a man can undertake, the more he travels, the more he discovers his wretchedness. Perhaps pray for courage first before pursuing humility.
Fasting, prayer on one’s knees, sleep on the hard floor. Deny your will and do the will of others, this last one is a true test. In true contradiction of the world the Lord says let the greatest of all be the servant of all.
“ Deny yourself, take up your cross and come follow me “
Denying yourself is the opposite of indulging yourself, and The Spirit of God totally opposes self indulgence.
The proud man indulges himself , he feels entitled, ‘ I’m me, of course I deserve it ‘
The proud man enforces all his rights and beyond, the humble man remembers his own sins and counts all others his betters.
Where is the Lord asking us to follow Him with our crosses? To the crucifixion of self, where self is not just tortured, but truly dies.
“ It is no longer I that lives, but Christ who lives in me “
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23But Jesus replied, “The hour has come for the Son of Man to be glorified.
24Truly, truly, I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a seed; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.
25Whoever loves his life will lose it, but whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.
26If anyone serves Me, he must follow Me; and where I am, My servant will be as well. If anyone serves Me, the Father will honor him.”
“Behold, to obey
is better than sacrifice,
and to hearken than the fat of rams.”
Obedience is true sacrifice, to sacrifice your will to prefer the will of another. Not sacrificing a dumb animal.
Obedience especially when you greatly desire your will instead, is the greatest sacrificial offering a man can make.
Use those opportunities of obedience the Father sends you each day, and make sacrifice of them to Him on the Altar of your heart.
The Lord will provide the sacrifice, see those opportunities to obey and deny your will tangled by their horns each day. Take them, and make sacrifice to the Lord.