Yep, some of us have reached the age when we pray: Lord thank you for another day.
Wrap me in a quilt.
Put me in a plain wooden box.
Put me in a hole and cover it up.
1 rose on my casket at a simple graveside service.
That's it. I'm gone. He has called me home.
No vaults. No fancy caskets. No wreaths of real or fake flowers.
No long funeral service or formal "visitation".
Just friends and extended family to help the loved ones I leave behind. Only to the extent they need and want it. Not a housefull of "company" and a steady stream of visitors for 3 days. Don't put the burdon of being host and hostess upon them.
To burn or not to burn....
For me, personally, the Bible is filled with references to people being buried when they die. Including land being purchased for burial and bones being transported until they could be buried. My Saviour was buried in a tomb. One day the graves will open.
And, for me personally, fire represents the wrath of God. Yes, He appeared in a burning bush and led the Hebrews with a pillow of fire. Yet, these verses also come to mind. (Representative samples)
Jeremiah 19: KJB
4 Because they have forsaken me, and have estranged this place, and have burned incense in it unto other gods, whom neither they nor their fathers have known, nor the kings of Judah, and have filled this place with the blood of innocents;
5 They have built also the high places of Baal, to burn their sons with fire for burnt offerings unto Baal, which I commanded not, nor spake it, neither came it into my mind:
6 Therefore, behold, the days come, saith the Lord, that this place shall no more be called Tophet, nor The valley of the son of Hinnom, but The valley of slaughter.
Jeremiah 32:28-30
Jeremiah 32:34-36
Revelation 19: KJB
20 And the beast was taken, and with him the false prophet that wrought miracles before him, with which he deceived them that had received the mark of the beast, and them that worshipped his image. These both were cast alive into a lake of fire burning with brimstone.