Going back to the original post - what are the differences in Calvinists? Wow - it's interesting to see you Baptists going back and forth so much.
As a deacon in an evangelical, reformed and calvinistic denomination, I wanted to share my thoughts.
First of course, there are many differences because there are many calvinistic denominations. There are reformed Baptists, Presbyterians, Reformed Christians, etc. just to name a few. While we would all agree that the correct scriptural view of salvation is now called "Calvinism" (as the great Baptist Spurgeon once said, "it is a nickname to call it Calvinism. It is the Gospel and nothing else."), many of us disagree on other issues, eg baptism, eschatology, etc.
Within the confines of our view of salvation, I am sure that there are some differences. But quite frankly, in more than 20 years as a Presbyterian I have yet to run into many and I have never run into those that are labled "hyper-Calvinists."
(What do you Arminians think we do? Have "John Calvin" Sunday? Make all new members recite the five points before joining the church?)
In any event, those of us who are calvinistic and evangelical do not "downplay" our doctrinal beliefs at all. Lest we forget, Evangelism Explosion (one of the greatest evangelistic tools out there) came out of a reformed church. Dr. Kennedy is somehow less Calvinistic in his doctrine than others? I don't think so. I think you would find Knox Seminary (also out of Coral Ridge) to be very calvinistic in their theology.
On any given Sunday, our pastor will probably not be preaching on Total Depravity, just as yours will probably not be preaching on the Free Will of Man. Hopefully, both will be proclaiming the good news of the Gospel, and that won't make you less of an Arminian or me less Calvinistic.