My wife is going in for knee replacement surgery tomorrow... I was going to take her but in preparing the house for the event after surgery by moving rugs and other thing that might cause her to slip, lost my balance and crashed into the floor and fractured my left elbow... So now a have a splint and am in a sling... Her son is taking us because I have to be there too, to see how I can help her in her rehabilitation and what can a 75 year old one armed man do?... We are going to get help from our church but we are still in between a rock and a hard place but our friends in our church said rest easy, we will take care of you and if you need anything, let us know... I have been on this board for almost 20 years and I have watched brethren argue and bicker and is that really how it is in doctrine?... What is church?... Is it a creed, a denomination mandate, if you don't believe as I believe, I do not even know if you are a child of God?... Or is as I believe and those I associate with, that if you show the attributes of God, how can you not be?... My wife and I will be okay because there are always children of God, who will step up when the need arises... What can happen next?... We also will step up when needed... Debate doctrines all you want... Church is about people!... Pray for us!... Brother Glen and Pam