The theoretical ability to lose one's salvation is a good spur to doing good works...
But, the real issue is this...
Why would any *real* Christian want to kick Jesus out of their life?
I mean after tasting and seeing that the Lord He is Good...
If after experiencing that in His Presence is fullness of Joy...
Why? Would I ever want to leave Him behind...
My God is a Jealous God... He fights for me...
Both to prove His love and to fend of all false loves...
Which Father will not do everything in their power to keep their sons and daughters in areas of their loving safety?
True enough my kids are 18 and 21 and can violate good sense if they want to...
But, their love for me constrains them against doing anything that might force me to kick them out...
Of course which of us Fathers *could* kick their kids out?
I mean they might get themselves in a place where they get killed in a car crash. God forbid!
But, unless they went into open rebllion and tried to kill me... I couldn't ever kick them out...
I suspect that God, as our "Abba" Father has similar feelings towards us...
John wrote us things so that we could and would know that we have eternal life...
1 John 5:13 I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life.
As long as you care if you belong to God or not...
I think that is a pretty good indicator that you haven't gone so far as to have lost your salvation...
And, trust me, if you ever stop caring...
God can get your attention in a way that will make you care pretty seriously... Pretty quickly
He's is not going to let you go without a fight...
James 4:8
Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.
If you care enough to draw nigh...
Lastly, how do you know you are saved in the first place?
Is it a feeling? NO...
It is based on the fact of the Word of God. Not feelings.
Feelings change daily, hourly even.
God's Word says that:
Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
I may not *feel* saved but if I continue to believe in the Physical Bodily Ressurection of Jesus Christ and if I am not Ashamed to confess my relationship with Jesus to all men, if my goal in life is to allow Him to be my undisputed ruling authority...
Then I am saved. No matter how I feel. No mater how bad I've messed up.
Hey, if I feel miserable about messing up...
Then In a *very* real sense I have already confessed it to God and Repented...
All that's left is for me to believe and accept:
1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
I hope this helps?
Mike Sr.