AmyG said:
As for the Calvinist, I don't know how they have confidence in their salvation. They don't believe their own faith plays any part in salvation. If you've been elected, you're saved. It has nothing to do with turning to God on their own part, because they say it is impossible for sinful man to turn to God. I have never been able to make any sense out of it.
Sigh.
AmyG, It's okay if you don't agree with Calvinism. But you ought to know what it is you disagree with. I am a Calvinist and what you wrote above about us makes no sense to me either. You have so badly mis-stated Calvinist beliefs, that one can only conclude that it is out of ignorance.
So that you won't look foolish again, let me clarify what we believe.
My confidence is in the risen Christ, who opened my heart and mind, convicted me of my sins and drew me to repentance and faith in Him. Every Calvinist I know would deny your contention that our faith plays no part in our salvation.
Election is not salvation. Election is to salvation. That's a huge difference. Even of the most ardent non-Calvinists on the Baptist Board agree with Calvinists on this. Those whom God elects will be saved, and there is no possibility that they won't.
Both Calvinists and non-Calvinists agree that election is from eternity. The disagreement is over the ground of election, not the fact of it.
Both Calvinists and non-Calvinists agree that no one can turn to God unless he is enabled. Non-Calvinists hold that the one is born with the ability to turn to God. Calvinists say the ability is given is given in time by the Holy Spirit, as He wills. Both Calvinists and non-Cals agree that one must turn from sin and turn to God in faith.
To answer the question in the OP: When God saves you, it demonstrates that you are one of the elect.