mcdirector said:
We are talking about judging salvation here. Not my place.
I wouldn't hang around folks chosing to live in sin. I would confront them if they were in church, if they'd been a part of my life and they'd changed - see what happens, but the removal would be happening. I would be praying for a change of heart in the other's life.
We use judgment with discernment for ministry opportunities - not to cut people off. How would we minister to the lost then?
It seems in order to know who to minister to, we must judge or use discernment concerning their salvation. No one walks someone through the plan of salvation if they believe they are already saved. If I don't appear saved, I hope my BB brothers and sisters will tell me in a loving way even if it goes against BB rules.
Maybe discernment is a better word than judgment in this context.
I guess we are different. I have no problems hanging around anyone, including people living in sin as long as the activity we are engaged in is positive and very focused (Bike riding, hiking, etc..) God is a part of me, so he will come up in conversation. If that is a problem for them, then they don't need to hang out with me.
AND on that other thread -- you called it abandoning children, I was looking at education in a different environment - a temporary solution. While we didn't agree, we probably could agree that our families are different and we both love the Lord and would be looking for ways to help the other one in a difficult situation.
I am not sure we could agree that both families love the Lord, for when you love the Lord, you also love your children. Parents who love their children, believers or not, don't choose education which requires abandonment of their parental responsibilities,
unless they feel it is in the best interests of the child. Or they are really messed up, mentally or physically and can't handle the job. But to become missionaries, then blame the Lord for your abandonment concerning the children is evil imo. The bible explains the role of parents to their children, husbands to their wives and so on....The family institution is very important to the Lord, and any biblical examples offered are not examples when read in context.
I have taught these classes at church. It was called the Role of the Family. Not that it makes me an expert by far.
Parents only
know their children are within Gods will if they are present to ensure it is happening. If they are teaching them God's will. Otherwise, it is a guessing game.
Their children could be lying to the parents due to intimidation etc...Ask Oprah
It's actually a good thing (sort of) that we don't agree, so no worries here.