Are you telling the truth when you say you actually preach? With some of the questions you ask I really have my doubts.
appeasing
to bring to a state of peace, quiet, ease, calm, or contentment; pacify; soothe.
to satisfy, allay, or relieve; assuage.
Synonyms: placate, calm
PROPITIATION
In theology, the atonement or atoning sacrifice offered to God to assuage his wrath and render him propitious to sinners. Christ is the propitiation for the sins of men. Rom 3. 1 John 2.
propitiate
propitiated, propitiating
to make favorably inclined; appease; conciliate
Christ is the propitiation sacrifice that propitiates
God the father.