Per our usual there has been unkindness toward each other in these posts.
But, I understand the frustration and anger of those of you who have rebuked others for their lack of knowledge and experience in this area.
When I was in my own state of emotional distress, one of the things I needed the most was a little understanding or at least some compassion from my fellow brethren.
To be honest, the world, the health workers, psychologists and psychiatrists gave me more support and genuine concern than the church.
In fact the church seemed to "shun" me probably because a Christian ought not to have these kinds of problems (And yes, that's a given). I was "institutionalized" for a while (off and on over several years) and only two that I can remember came from the church to see me. Mostly I was told to "snap out of it" or some such words and I can understand that as I was a threat to them as well. If it happened to me it could happen to them.
The little affection and support I got from other Christians was like water to a man dying of thirst.
Do you know any of these? Go, pray for and with them, reassure them that God still loves them. Hold a hand. Read Scripture of hope to them.
It will go a long way.
This was my song of misery for several years:
Psalm 88 (A Song or Psalm for the sons of Korah, to the chief Musician upon Mahalath Leannoth, Maschil of Heman the Ezrahite)
1 O LORD God of my salvation, I have cried day and night before thee:
2 Let my prayer come before thee: incline thine ear unto my cry;
3 For my soul is full of troubles: and my life draweth nigh unto the grave.
4 I am counted with them that go down into the pit: I am as a man that hath no strength:
5 Free among the dead, like the slain that lie in the grave, whom thou rememberest no more: and they are cut off from thy hand.
6 Thou hast laid me in the lowest pit, in darkness, in the deeps.
7 Thy wrath lieth hard upon me, and thou hast afflicted me with all thy waves. Selah.
8 Thou hast put away mine acquaintance far from me; thou hast made me an abomination unto them: I am shut up, and I cannot come forth.
9 Mine eye mourneth by reason of affliction: LORD, I have called daily upon thee, I have stretched out my hands unto thee.
10 Wilt thou shew wonders to the dead? shall the dead arise and praise thee? Selah.
11 Shall thy lovingkindness be declared in the grave? or thy faithfulness in destruction?
12 Shall thy wonders be known in the dark? and thy righteousness in the land of forgetfulness?
13 But unto thee have I cried, O LORD; and in the morning shall my prayer prevent thee.
14 LORD, why castest thou off my soul? why hidest thou thy face from me?
15 I am afflicted and ready to die from my youth up: while I suffer thy terrors I am distracted.
16 Thy fierce wrath goeth over me; thy terrors have cut me off.
17 They came round about me daily like water; they compassed me about together.
18 Lover and friend hast thou put far from me, and mine acquaintance into darkness.
What was my unresolved conflict? I knew I was a believer but did not know why this horrible misery had come upon me.
The Lord eventually heard my prayer and after several years He gave me a new song:
Psalm 89 (Maschil of Ethan the Ezrahite)
1 I will sing of the mercies of the LORD for ever: with my mouth will I make known thy faithfulness to all generations.
2 For I have said, Mercy shall be built up for ever: thy faithfulness shalt thou establish in the very heavens.
Spurgeon was one of many "men of God" who had emotional turmoil in their lives. Men such as John Bunyan and Jonathan Edwards were deeply afflicted with these symptoms accompanied with storms of emotional distress.
If nothing else be kind to those who are thus afflicted and:
"Love one another".
Pastors: "Feed my sheep". And I know many/most of you do.
HankD